I really want to start having sex. I've never had a relationship

>>18176658

this is nothing like a job hunt, by your own admission you can get laid you just choose to back out.

and its just a hook up, not a relationship so it doesnt matter if you are bad at it, so go do what you're already doing, but just go through because the only way you learn is by doing.

no one gets an experienced sex teacher. you gotta do what the rest of us did and just have awkward clumsy sex.

also
>i cant have a relationship
>but i can get laid

one of these is a lie, so you better start explaining so we can understand

>>18176712
Op is trying to impress up by saying he can get a grill, problem for him though is that we all know he can't.

>>18176658
you should contact the local government, ask them about this issue and they will give you some form to fill out. Then a few days later they will set you up with a girl and she will have sex with you. The girl also has similar issue.

>>18176712
Ridiculous when you think about it, there being no instructional videos anywhere on the internet.

Got to be bullshit, even. There has to be a string you hit google/pornhub/whatever with that doesn't return a whole bunch of BS porn.

>>18176768

there's actually tons, they just appear to be vague because there isnt much that can be said outside of 'keep thrusting and then play with their body here and there'.

stop acting like the world sucks. everyone else figured out how to have sex, you will too.

waht did you just never ride a bike because you were afraid you'd fall?

>>18176658
Why don't you meet a high quality escort OP?
Be honest and say you dont have much experience, new to the "hobby" etc. If you pick a good one you can go at your own pace, learn the ropes, and have a good time. No pressure on you because you're paying for a service as opposed to hooking up with some girl who is looking for a good time.

>>18176768

There doesn't have to be, friend. Sometimes, you have to try. That's all.

>>18176775
not OP but aren't escort illegal in most places?

>>18176772
Not OP, just thinking aloud for them.

On instructional videos, half is being told, half is being shown - and for the showing I'd think either "romantic" or "passionate" would give the best hits on pornhub - whilst having decent production values, that is.

>>18176792

>while having decent production values

it'd make no money. this is a stupid idea, just go have sex.

>>18176792

Porn is made to look good. Doesn't mean doing it feels good. And even then, it depends on what she likes to do and what she liks done to her.

Think of sex as dancing. You can learn all those flashy moves to impress those watching, but the old hand on the waist is way more useful when pulling a move o a girl.

Don't overthink it, just give it a try.

>>18176795
Already exists, actually. Obviously someone's making money off it.

Ladies choice perhaps.

>>18176802
Well, amateur porn is done more for the joy of it than the money making. But the lighting is too often shit.

>>18176808

And did you ever see something on amateur porn that looked hard to perform on your own? Something that warranted beibg studied?

>>18176848
No, but that could just be because you can hardly see anything with the lighting/camera angles used.

>>18176658

How old are you? Even casual hook-ups assume a previous relationship, friends or at least some common space to meet and hang out.

Dating apps are for older people.

>>18176854

Ok, so one is too fake and the other too hard to see. Weren't you the one defending using porn? It seems it's pretty useless...

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>>18176712
>one of these is a lie, so you better start explaining so we can understand

>i cant have a relationship
I have a very religious and up-in-your-business family. I'm not having a relationship until I've moved far away from them, which is 2-3 years away at very least.
Apart from that, I don't want to be tied down anytime soon.

>but i can get laid
I'm somewhat attractive, and am the opposite of an autist - ie, very emotionally intelligent.

>>18176768
>Got to be bullshit, even. There has to be a string you hit google/pornhub/whatever with that doesn't return a whole bunch of BS porn.

Instructional videos would be pretty neat. However, seeing videos of people explaining how to drive doesn't really substitute for actually driving. My problem I think is being comfortable a first-time scenario. Comfort is directly related to, and allows for, arousal. I would just want the girl to be very understanding and positive -- as far as I know, that's a tall order outside of a relationship.

>>18176775
>Why don't you meet a high quality escort OP?

This is a very good idea, but I think the shame of having to pay for the first time will live with me forever.

>>18176857
>How old are you?
24

>Even casual hook-ups assume a previous relationship, friends or at least some common space to meet and hang out.
I'm not sure what you mean

>>18176861
The one positing a third option exists.

'Amateur porn' with good lighting and camera work - good production values.

But I might be pursuing the point too far - what you'd be looking for in it would be attentiveness, physicality - whole body - and just plain give and take.

>>18176863

>I'm not sure what you mean

To have casual hook-ups, you need to hang with girls. Even going out to a club implies dancing or flirting before getting to the sex.

>>18176658
not worth it unless you want deal with false rape accusations,STD's or child support.

Are you kinky? Do you have any fetishes? Try fetlife. You'll meet lots of sex freaks and a good amount of them are average-looking.

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>>18177522

Literally no--

Wait. I have piss and lactation porn. And now that I think of it, I'm mildly interested in blood; maybe sweat too.

But desu that's all pretty nuts; I was hoping to get vanilla down before starting to explore my fucked up side ^_^'''

But apart from that, the puzzle here is, "How do I find someone that's understanding and willing to take virginity and teach, outside of a relationship or prostitution."

>>18176863
>I'm the opposite of an autist
>Anime
News bad some have I