I am at a crossroad in my life right now where I have to decide

White people are weird.

How you managed to drag race into this is beyond me.

But I guess for racists everything is race-related

>>18176332
Guess so white boi. Don't be offended, whities have fear of commitment and being noble.

Let me just say that if after 6 years, my partner was not sure about me, I would be pissed the fuck off.

What were you thinking wasting 6 years of someone's life if you aren't ready to commit to them?

>>18176320

Ask yourself if you're hesitating because it's a big decision, or if you're hesitating because it is a big decision with her. If the first, then you can talk with her about it, how you aren't quite ready yet and she'll probably understand. If the latter, then take a hard look at your relationship and where you see it going. If you have no problems with the idea of having a family, but you're not sure about having it with her, then it's likely thar your relationship with her is the problem here. Your gf is reaching the age where people tend to have kids, if you keep her waiting, her fertility will start to decline and she'll come to recent you, if she eventually won't be able to have kids at all. If motherhood matters to her, but you're not sure if kids are relevant to your interests any time soon, it might be necessary to break up so that you both can get what you want from life.

>>18176377
>fear of commitment

LOL

where's your dad desean? still gettin them pop tarts?

>>18176386
What?

don't be a nerd. I only date non whites because white bois waste time

>>18176384
Thanks for the advice, you make some valid points to consider.
>>18176381
Because relationships are taking things one step at a time, these feelings of doubt did not start until I was forced to think about these major steps in our relationship.