>meet girl in college >befriend her, take friendship outside

>>18176211
You'll never know 100%, unless she flat out tells you.

IMO, if she said she wants to take things slow, maybe she wasn't sure whether or not she's ready for a relationship. If she's trying interacting with your social media shit, then she's trying.

Ask her out for a date (and make sure she knows it's a date when you ask her), if she accepts then I'd say you're in. Take her out for a drink, then go for a walk and lean in for a kiss before you part ways.

That's how I usually do it with girls that are shy. But then again, I'm also a social retard I might be off.

What i learned from shy girls are that they need someone to trust before they can open up. When she tells you something about herself make her feel secure. After that its just time. Youre on the good road my friend, she is hinting you, she likes you. What you feel for her is what she feels for you

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It's 3:32am, I messaged her a pic relating to what she's doing up this late (pic related; we have mutual shit humor), her response was "I was wondering the same about you before this message."

Is she keeping tab of when I'm online? Is this, in any way, valuable information?

>>18176219
Hmm. I've been told the same in regards to her feeling she's not ready for a relationship. Although I really do not understand what that means. How does one prepare themselves, or know that they're ready for one? I never had those thoughts on my own.

What's the difference between a date and a hangout, and how do I communicate that it's a date?
I would very much like to go out for a drink with her, she's never been drunk and I want to give her that experience, but it's a few months before I can visit a bar. I'd invite her to my place but it's ALWAYS occupied.

>>18176226
How do I give her the sense of security when there is nothing really going against her?
There isn't much about her that is tough on her. She's had the most average childhood where we can both relate (low income Mexican-Americans growing up playing tons video games).

>>18176234
NIGGA WHAT DID I TELL YOU? SHE FEELS THE SAME FOR YOU AS YOU DO FEEL FOR HER. SHE IS WAITING TALK TO HER, BUILD THINGS UP AGAIN FFS NGIGER
heilhitler<3

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>>18176248
Shit shit shit, alright alright.
I'm talking to her right now. She's up because of math homework. Yes, I know, help her out blahblahblah. How do I escalate and build shit up again?

>>18176234
It's pretty easy to see who's online, especially when it's this late. But yeah, she definitely seems into you, ask her out dude!

But don't get her drunk. If she's never been drunk before, and she's shy it's probably not the best idea to get her drunk on your first date.

>>18176252
with time man. Be patient, be sweet, be the playful you that youre. be happy and loving :D everything gonna be ok mayne, trust me on this.

>>18176258
I still don't know how to separate the idea of a hangout and a date and communicate that. We've hung out several times, but neither of us would say they were dates. Even on the days we kissed, much of the day was just going around LA eating food.

>>18176264
be straightforward about it. tell her, when the time is right, to go out on a DATE. DAAAATTTEEE HEIL HITLER NIGGERS FUCKING JEW GASSING GASMACHINE

>>18176269
Fuck man, you're far more awkward than me.

>>18176270
my awkwardness is what makes girls like me :D Being yourself(or awkward) isnt a bad thing, the badness about being awkward is overthinking or having no confidence. With confidence you can do any fucking thing and everyone will like/love you.
Im gonna tell you little bit about me :p I have been texting a girl i met last week and really really liked. I know these steps are hard, mate i was scared shitless. Every text i sent i read 10 times, was it right, was it funny enough, what if X, what if Y. but at the end all those thoughts dont even matter, what matter is to live every moment on the way that the small little akward kid inside me wants to live it :D so heil hitler and be happy my friend, what ever makes you happy will make her happy as well

>>18176211
Meet with her again and get close and flirty again. If she reciprocates again and the timing seems right repeat what you've already done. Kiss her and gf her.
If she pushes you away again I'd say you two are done. But it seems to me you'll succeed. Good luck breh