Been in a series of monogamous relationships since 7 years ago,

>>18173204

by turning this break into a break up. breaks are bullshit, specifically breaks where you're allowed to fuck. what shes basically saying is 'hey, i want to go fuck other people, but you can still buy me dinner when im satiated'. its literal cuckery.

>i need to become okay just by myself.
>how do i do that?

be single. explore being on your own, and throw in a little male bonding when you get lonely. people don't realize just how great friendship and self love can be because they're too busy chasing high's with girls.

>>18173212
I'm the she, he's the he.

So, uh, I'm not into chasing anyone. I just want to be with him, have fun, fuck, etc.. He's a great guy but he's in law school and on the review board, so he's busy. He had to make a choice and decided that he want to take a break until summer. I don't know if I will go absolutely insane with no sex or emotional/physical intimacy until then. This is because, I'm guessing, I'm not comfortable enough just being by myself.

>>18173220

same advice but instead of bro time, sis time

>>18173224
I was coming to his defense. He's not looking to consciously take advantage of me; he just had to make the best choice for his life dude. He's just a fucking great guy. I want to hold out for him even, but if I hold out for him that means no sex or physical intimacy on a regular basis. Can I do what I need to do while on this break or do I have to drop his wonderful ass?

>>18173229

dunno, thats up to you really. just know that even if you wait for him, you wont really be be okay by just your self, you'll just be teaching yourself how to tide over until a guaranteed booty call basically.

there's a difference between quitting drinking but still having a beer, and quitting drinking until you can have beer again.

>>18173234
I've been of chan for a bit, is this fresh copypasta? O how we've fallen.

>>18173231
So do you think the idea is that I don't sleep with people at all? Man. That's a tough deal. I mean I can go get some dude any night of the week, so if I broke it off I could do that. Sex wouldn't be as good though. And there's the whole risk factor too.