I might just be a girl over reacting but please help. So early

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>>18169330
He just wanted to watch some porn while he got head, lots of guys think that's hot, most won't openly ask because they're afraid of this exact response. Let it go.

>>18169344
I can't just get over it though idk why

Why did he have to do it behind my back?
Why would he want to watch another girl sucking someone's dick? Why not just watch me?

I think it was because of the type of porn that has made me feel like shit, why watch pov of some other girl sucking a dick?

>>18169330
>giving my boyfriend head while he was watching a documentary
This is by FAR THE WEIRDEST PART OF YOUR STORY

>>18169429
Because it would be fucking awesome so watch some pov porn while getting some head
>t. Average guy

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>>18169330

>I was giving my boyfriend head while he was watching a documentary on his laptop

Lol talk to him about it

Your relationship is doomed if you can't even discuss simple shit like this

dooooooomed xD

OP here, it was a boring documentary ~ desu I got bored and wanted to mess around but now I'm just sad :c

>>18169443
I can't be like 'I went on your history as soon as you left the room EXPLAIN THIS!'

Don't tell him why you're angry. Next time you see him, act really distant and cold. When he asks why you're acting like that, tell him he should know.

>>18169456
no, just be like "when you watch porn when I'm giving you head it makes me feel like _____"

>>18169503
I'm led in bed next to him right now, he is playing Zelda. He asked if I was okay and why I seem cold but I feel like I can't explain why to him :-(

>>18169521
Well done. Keep it like that for a week. If he doesn't apologies at least four or five times a day, text your ex to make him jealous.

>>18169521
>>18169456

Immediately stop what you're fucking doing right now and explain to us why the fuck you were sucking his dick while he was watching something on his laptop you goddamn weirdo.

>>18169569
I got bored desu, thought it would lead into more than him getting head and hiding that he is wayching porn lmfao

>>18169569
Not her but I sucked my ex's dick while he played Street Fighter. It's called having fun

Talk to him about it. It'd bum me out too. But it's weird that he hides the fact that he's watching porn, and you don't talk to him about your feelings. You guys have to communicate.

I wish my gf would suck my dick when I'm doing stuff at pc.

Whatever works for you and him. Here is a flowchart
>Are you okay with it?
YES-STOP
NO-GO ON
>When you say okay with it are you still bothered, insecure, want to know if you are boring, etc?
IF YES-READ ON
IF NO-CANT HELP THOSE WHO DONT WANT TO HELP THEMSELVES- STOP
>You are probably boring, but good news there is a test and a fix.
?TEST-CAN HE DO THE DEED RELIABLY/NOT SLOW?
---IF YES - YOU ARE REASON
---IF NO - HE IS A KEEPER
EITHER WAY:
> Even if you or him, nothing wrong with being who you are. If it still bothers you, and not his fault, doesn't matter. Talk to him or it will gnaw away at you. However, its probably to most sensitive part of a male ego so be gentle.
>Consider also working on technique. Google it. Sources exist and I doubt he will mind being a practice dummy.

Be happy. The 1st and only rule is if you aren't enjoying it you're doing it wrong.

I suspect that even if your technique great now or with practice, he will want to watch anyway.

Personal Advice:
For his own good, in the nicest way possible, redpill him. It doesn't have to be a full dose, but get him to appreciate sex, the real act not the computer. He isn't doing it right either if he thinks it better.

Be gentle with him. You are an amazing person to care in this way.

-Peace

>>18169579

Is your brain made of wet tissue? How in the fuck would sucking someone's dick who is staring at a screen "lead" into something else? Exactly what did you expect sucking someone's dick who wasn't paying any attention to you would "lead" into? Did you not think to just put your hand up and scoot his laptop away? Whats wrong with you?

>>18169581

Please, explain to me how performing a sex act on someone who can't even be bothered to pay attention to you is fun. I'm really really interested in the answer.

>>18169456
Actually yeah you can. You can be honest about being sneaky. He will trust you more. It would be weirder if a girl wasn't sneaky.

>>18169598
Different poster. Performing sex acts is fun. I like to suck dick, it feels good in my mouth. I don't really care if I have his full attention because it's not about him. Sometimes I just want the dick.

>>18169330
Your mistake was not "confronting" him immediately. The longer you wait to talk to him about it the worse it will get. If you don't have the guts to tell him what you did, ask him why he was typing. Tell him you suspect he was watching porn. Even if he denies, tell him that it would upset you if he did. And don't get mad if he denies it, he might just be too embarrassed and caught off guard. Just make sure he knows that it would theoretically upset you. If it happens again in the future, then and only then do you have a legit reason to be mad.

>>18169662
Any dick or his?

in case its his you actually want him not the dick

>>18169598
It's fun to suck dick. Watch him get horny and get distracted from his game. I like pleasuring the guy I love, and being spontaneous is fun. He liked it, I liked it, I don't understand what problem you find in this.

Man I hate being single.

jeez could this thread be any more of a humble brag?

like come on ...

>>18169429

FYI if you grow up watching porn and 99.99% of your orgasms have taken place with it, sometimes you feel like you need it to get comfortable, horny, and titillated. He was probably doing it to sustain a big boner for you more than he wanted to simulate a not-you blowjob.

This is so sad. It's lik guys can't enjoy sexual experiences and intimacy anymore because of porn. If my bf did this I would certainly break up.

>>18169927

no the difference is the guy she is blowing is probably the type of guy that can get away with anything

tall, above average looks, probably in pretty good shape

if any other normal guy did this of course it would be grounds for breaking up, they probably wouldn't even try to if they wanted too, but here op is trying to figure out why he's doing this when in reality she doesn't really care because if she did she would have just broken up with him or made him stop, and he doesn't care either cause obviously hes probably got options and knows she doesn't have the leverage in the relationship

>>18169938
Op here, not even close. I am very happy with our relationship and I don't want to ruin it.

That's why I am afraid to bring this up and ruin what we have :c idk I feel lost

Thanks for all the help guys, it's half 4:30 in the morning. I haven't told him I know, I tried to act normal but he knows something is wrong. I feel like it's too late to bring it up now but how do I get over this??

Just bring it up OP! The long you let this stay in you the more unbearable its going to get for you. You don't seem like the type that is able to just simply let it go since you are making such a big deal about it.

Just say "Hey, when I was giving you head earlier I saw that you were watching a certain type of porn, is there a reason as to why you were?" or however you want to word it.

>>18169429
>Why did he have to do it behind my back?

This is the biggest issue here
Confront him.

>>18170300
Yeah that is my least favourite part. He is asleep now so I can't even do it untill the morning.
I am not going to lie, I was salty and made a few hits regarding porn and the type he was watching to see if he would say anything but really nothing at all :c

>>18169927
It has made me feel completely worthless the more I dwell on it and it's just how secretive it all was

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>>18170310
Dudes don't pick up hinty shit like this as easily as you would hope. Be direct about it tomorrow or let it eat you. It is obviously bothering you, and you don't seem good at dealing with how it's effecting you, so you need to get it out on the table or you're gonna keep feeling the need to do passive aggressive type shit. That's just gonna drive you more insane and start pissing him off too.

Even if you try your hardest, pornstars are literally professionals at making a blowjob look good. I can definitely understand why this is upsetting, and your bf is kind of a douche... But 1.) Porn is comfy and aesthetically pleasing and 2.) The laptop was literally in front of him and he thought he could get away with it, which adds an extra thrill- think having your cake and eating it too. This has way less to do with you than you are thinking. Your boyfriend is just kind of inconsiderate, which is not your fault at all.

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>>18169429
>Why did he have to do it behind my back?

Probably the same reason why you're asking random people in the internet instead of just talking with him like a grown up.

While i understand how awkward desu u feel to ask senpai how much hotter than you pornstars are, if this tiny issue makes u run to the internet, you are not ready for a mature open relationship. Either confront him with your pussy power or get over it because at the end of the day youre the one sucking his dick, not the computer

>>18170386
>>18170386

Damn straight talk.

He wanted to pretend he was swapping? Or maybe pretend there were two girls?

You kind of tucked up looking at his history, though. Should have just asked him.

>>18169429
He hid it because he knew you'd be upset. Which you are.

He did it probably to try to cum from head. I can't cum from head and my gf is very good at it and has a tongue ring. Like I can squirm and feel like it's way too kuch but I don't cum.

Maybe his dick is small and it isn't visually stimulating enough because of that.

Guys are so gross. They can never just fucking enjoy what they have. Disgusting and the reason why I turned to explore women.

Hey OP, I don't blame you for asking the internet, there's some issues we don't really wanna' ask our friends or senpai about lmao. I think it's best if you ask him why he was typing or had his laptop open while you were blowing him in the first place. He might be shy of eye contact or uncomfortable for reasons he's nervous about. If you guys are able to discuss it easily perhaps suggest he watch you as well, to get that visual stimulation or overcome something if he does have an issue.

>>18169540
kek dude stop

It's not a big deal, but I can see why you're upset. Just say openly to him how you feel, if he doesn't understand he's too immature to comprehend.

Honestly though, just talk to him.

>>18169330
>was giving my boyfriend head while he was watching a documentary on his laptop. It was on his lap

How were you giving head while his laptop was on his lap?

>>18169330

First off, by looking at his history you've instantly given away any moral high ground you might have had. Be warned, if you bring it up he's going to want to know how you know and things will devolve rapidly from there. Unlike what others have said, this isn't grounds to break up; you looking through his history on the other hand is.

There's any number of reasons he might have wanted to watch some porn while you blew him and very few are going to be an issue with you.
Ask yourself if the relationship is still fresh/he seems fine (does he normally keep an erection without too much issue?).
I know it's hard but you really need to try and not spiral into a really bad emotional state because nothing good will come of it.

>>18169330
Any guy who does ANYTHING else while you're being sexual with him is showing you disrespect to the point of contempt. You're not even a sex object to him, just something to ignore.

Have some self-respect even though he has none for you.

>>18170845
You're pretty fucking lonely in life, huh?

>>18170857
No actually. I have a long-term loving and very sexual relationship with a girlfriend I respect as much as I love.

And you?

>>18170906
Are you a woman? Your posts come across as being written by a female.

How hard it it to understand the concept that he wants to have a visual of a hotter girl than your boring ass? If I was him I would immediately drop you for being so mopey and self centered.

>>18170819
She tucked his cock between his thighs and stuffed her face between his asscheeks

>>18171015
That's the first position I thought about, too.

>>18171014

How many women have you slept with, anon?

>>18171037
A couple... are you implying that i'm a virgin because I can imagine watching porn over staring at my chubby 4chan browsing gf slobber on my dick?

>>18169344
Holy fuck the cucks on this board.

Kys faggot.

>>18170845
>ANYTHING else
You mean like enhancing the experience for himself, at no [perceived or intentional] cost to her?

Yeah, what a douche.

OP here!
Thanks for all the replies.

Little update for you all, so I finally confronted him, I didn't mention about this history because he honestly didn't ask, he thought I just saw the reflection of the screen in his glasses because that has happened before (not while he was watching porn but I can just see and we made a joke about it before).

So his answer was that he was worried he wasn't hard enough and he wanted to see if it was him or me. And he thought the best way of that was to watch porn. :c

Honestly I don't know how I feel about that answer but if he is telling the truth I guess I should just respect that.

>>18170819
He is 6ft4, tall guy, laptop was on his tummy - sorry I didn't specify that!

Honest advice from my point of view. Maybe he thinks you arent good enough, using the porn to get off of instead of you.

>>18171144
Yeah I think that too but it just didn't make sence. Like we have been dating for 5 months, we live together so he gets head everyday and most times sex aswell. He had trouble in the past finishing with his other girlfriends but we have never had that trouble. And this is the only time he as ever done something like this :c

Wow...a femanon makes an interesting thread for once?

>>18169569
Dude, fucking chill...ok? You're the reason that Femanons here are so damn timid about posting stuff about their sex lives. Her Bf is a grown man. He could have told her no at anytime so obviously it was consensual. Calm the fuck down.

My gf acts the same way when I bring my iPad to bed. I'll be watching historical documentaries and she'll get jealous that I'm giving my iPad more attention than her and she'll just start groping me out of no where and shit. He probably went to porn becuase he wanted to get in the mood for head. There's nothing wrong with you, it's just that men love porn and women hate it.

>>18171115
It does sound like a lie unfortunately. Accusing and trying to change men gets nowhere, so either you'll accept he did it and it might not happen again or it'll make things fizzle out.

>>18171261
Yeah, but I shouldn't really doubt him though because if it's not a lie and he was actually worried about something like that I feel as though it would be unfair to discredit him right? Since it's kinda a sensitive topic

>>Giving him head daily
He's spoiled. How do you wear out a good thing? By giving him too much.
If you wanted it to esculate, you're supposed to get him hard, take him away from the show and lay him down somewhere so you can get on top. He'll be forced to watch you.
Who tf watches documentaries during sex anyway? Lol

>>18170909
Why? Because only women can respect or love other women?

>>18171200
Don't let it become a habit if it bothers you; it will only destroy your relationship

>>18171384
Read the first part of this comment, OP