Is it wrong to break up with somebody because they're so depressed they're making me depressed?
>>18169050
No, it's fine. Protecting yourself and your mental health is a perfectly acceptable reason to break up if the relationship brings you more misery than joy.
If they're depressed because of something that has recently happened to them, then yeah that's kinda fucked up but if you don't like them enough to stick through it then you're wasting their time as well as your own.
If it's a lifetime thing and you're not willing to put in the effort to make it through, don't force it out of guilt. You don't owe anyone anything.
>>18169050
No its not wrong. You need to be happy
>>18169069
>If they're depressed because of something that has recently happened
Car accident back in September has kept her off work and her misery has become too much to deal with
>>18169111
Save yourself as others have stated but don't completely ghost her if she's seriously depressed. The worst you can do for someone who holds you dear in their life.
Support her but don't let it drag you down. Is she seeing a mental health doc for this?
Remember that relationships are all about yourself.
If they are struggling or in need, do what is best for yourself.
And if you are struggling or in need, expect them to do what is best for yourself.
That way, no matter what happens you will benefit ^_^