Is there any kind of a secret "no imaginary genders" -setting I can unlock on OkCupid? There's some attack helicopter that I offended there and I'm scared she'll track me down IRL and ruin my life if I ever show my face there again, and she has her gender set down as "other" so you can't filter her out by only searching for gay men like I was.
And I am like literally afraid that she would absolutely do that and I can't think of any other way to find a partner while being tied to a small-town-gay-desert as I am and dying alone is killing me.
>>18167543
So you were searching for gay men & you upset a straight woman who identified as a man?
>>18167543
Or don't online date at all. That's another good alternative. Just waltz up to a fine young dame and ask her if you could treat her to a lovely evening of fine wine and dinner.
>>18167578
>Telling a gay man to waltz up to a dame
Nice one
OP's bitching about some straight woman obsessing about him in spite of his being gay
>>18167562
She doesn't even identify as male, she was genderqueer/genderfluid/whatever. Attack helicopters are cathegorised as "all", so this physically-a-woman seeking to date women was filtered also as a gay man.
>>18167578
I'm a dude. Hitting on dudes on the street is gonna get me fucking stabbed.
>>18167581
I'm not worried about her OBSESSING over me, I'm afraid of hostile retaliation in the case she happens to remember me.
>>18167772
Oh man, if only there was some social scene for gay people to meet and mingle. Like a bar of some kind
>>18167779
Do you know what "a gay desert" means?
There's no gays in a reasonable dating distance. I'm not going to drive for over an hour to make it to the capital to just shag someone who won't remember my name.
I want a BOYFRIEND.