>meet girl through friends, we get along well, she's sleeping on my shoulder the first night
>weeks go by, we get a little closer
>kissing, holding hands, sitting on my lap, etc
>attempt to ask her out
>rejected
>find out this guy she's known long distance for almost 3 years is coming to see her in may for the first time
>suddenly remember her telling me about him before, but just that he was a friend
I don't even know why I'm posting. I just feel shitty and confused. She wasn't even a bitch about anything either, and I don't know if they're even a thing. It just seems like the obvious thing, cause why else would he fly across the country to see one girl?
He's going to be deep dicking her the first night, op. You had your chance... had
>>18166717
you ask out immediately, not after a few weeks. that's your mistake. she showed you that she was interested and you didnt make a move. you fucked it up. dont blame her.
asking her weeks later was just too late. she already had time to crush on you, feel rejected, get over it, and find another guy.
Go find another one. This one isnt worth the effort.
>>18166723
I considered that, but a week prior to this she had been really concerned about me stressing myself over studying, and then the day after that she was tackling me on a couch, play fighting and kissed me. Maybe, I don't know, but that quick adjustment is a bit too quick to me.
You don't want to know her when he shows up. If he doesn't sum to expectation expect to see her texting you mid May
>kissing, holding hands, sitting on my lap, etc
Do people seriously fucking do this with their friends? Sober? Like, with people they're not even dating or fucking? What the hell?
Seriously, in what bizarro world can you have a girl kissing you and sitting in your lap and NOT have fucked her or gone on a date with her yet. Makes no sense.
Never seen that happen IRL. Pretty weird, OP.
>>18166717
>kissing, holding hands, sitting on my lap, etc
you dodged a bullet op. why would you date some slut who does that with her friends?
>>18166786
It amazes me too bro. I'm a pretty attractive guy and I've never had any girls that didn't want to date me ever kiss me or do anything sexual like that.