Why do you people get so worked up over chicks and relationships?

Enjoy being old and alone

Because companionship, affirmation and love are things people not on the autistic spectrum crave.

>>18165276

Can't buy genuine companionship and a meaningful human connection from a whore.

>>18165280
I get companionship from my friends. I get sex from escorts. Works for me.

Because I want something real with someone who isn't a literal prostitute? Something I look for as opposite in a girl?
Maybe you enjoy being a cuck but I'd rather not intentionally pay to be one.

>>18165296
I think this board is just full of naive teenagers. All women are prostitutes, and you will learn this as you get older.

>>18165297
Except I can confidently bring a girl around my family without her fucking my dad for more money than I pay her.
You're either naive or a troll. I'm assuming the latter.

Sex and intimacy is much more rewarding with someone you love. An escort would scratch the sex "itch" for me but I'd end up feeling shame and guilt afterwards, and the experience wouldn't be nearly as enjoyable as it is with someone I actually want to be with.

>>18165297
What do you mean by "all women are prostitutes"?

>>18165308
Obviously it will never be the same as having a girlfriend, but there are escorts who genuinely enjoy what they do and are very talented at making it an enjoyable experience. They cost a bit more than your drug-addicted street whore, but it is worth it. Think of it like going out to eat at a fine restaurant, the staff may not personally know you but the good ones genuinely care about making your evening enjoyable.

>>18165326
Nah. They all fake it. They all secretly hate you and wish you didn't exist in their world and your money would just fall in their lap without having to take your chode dick in it first. Never trick yourself into believing you make a prostitutes day better by you specifically being there.

These are the type of people that think Hooters girls love their jobs and think they're important to the server's because they know you on a first name basis. It's actually fucking sad that it's the case.

>>18165334
And you know this how? Because the media tells you?

>>18165339
Because I've known prostitutes. I know strippers. They harness their deep seated resentment so they don't get attached to their clients.

>>18165343
>strippers
Well there's your problem. Strippers are usually pretty low-class people, drug addicts who work at bars owned by bikers and shit. One of the escorts I see told me that her favorite thing about her job is dealing with physically disabled men, they are normal guys but would have a lot of difficulty picking up women (no pun intended), she said that she genuinely enjoys making their lives a bit better. Makes sense to me.

>>18165313
Think about it you mong. Girlfriends cost money, women all spend money like there is no tomorrow and they usually expect the man to pick up the tab, and at least with an escort you know you are getting laid when you want. And then there is marriage. I cant think of a more one-sided contract, she can take all of your money on a whim. I don't understand why any man would sign into such horse shit, but even if you're smart enough to not get married, after a set period of living together the state considers you a "common law" couple which means that she still has her hooks into you.

>>18165276
You dont pay an escort for sex, you pay her to leave

>>18165395
Fair point, although a lot of normal chicks aren't that great at sex, a good escort is a professional

I'm worried about the legality of it and I don't know where to get an escort.

Where does /adv/ get their escorts? I mean, I live in Vegas, but prostitution isn't "legal" here.

Plus I have high standards and worry that an attractive one is gonna cost like $3k, in which case I'd rather just go to the bar and pick up some drunk girl for cheaper.

>>18165276
The pros and cons are as follows:

Pros
>Will do anything for the right price
>Won't cause drama of you don't allow it
>Great sex
>Get treated like royalty with full service if you're clean, young, attractive, and a decent human being

Cons
>A GOOD prostitute with standards is worth 200 and if you want sex more than once a week it will add up to a lot
>The older you are the least amount of service will be available to you unless you find a girl who really likes older men
>There is ALWAYS the possibility of contracting skin on skin viral infections such as warts and herpes especially the longer you do it
>Unless you can drop 1200 a month on sex and still have money for rent and food, you'll only have sex once or twice.

Having a girlfriend is way more cost effective. She'll even go Dutch on you for a lot of things if she likes you enough. Plus gifts. Plus sex whenever wherever for free as much sex as you want.

I think I'm just going to repeat several other opinions here - the difference with a partner is that you have that connection and a feeling that they are with you because they want to be, as opposed to doing so because you've paid them.

Of course, there are shitty relationships and shitty people out there who will use you and break your heart and in these cases, it probably makes more sense to hire a prostitute to give you what you need with none of the drama.

However, if you prefer the company of whores to being in an adult relationship this probably suggests more about the people you choose to be in a relationship with (Or you) than it does the validity of using prostitutes for all your human necessities.

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>>18165276
> I just hire an escort twice a month.
When I had a relationship, I had sex twice a week. Plus backrubs when I was tired from work.

> The money I pay is a drop in the bucket compared to what a long-term relationship would cost
You're dating the wrong women. The woman I last dated loved to hike. We'd pack a lunch, hit the trails, and have a picnic. Find a woman like that, and you won't have to waste hundreds of dollars on whores or getting tested for STDs.

>>18165395
True dat. I had an escort ask me to be her boyfriend. I ran and never went back.

>>18165326
No, there's escorts who know it's good business to act like they enjoy it too.

If you aren't fucking your girl atleast once every two days there's something wrong. Being that there's no way you can afford that much with an escort you clearly get more "bang" for your buck.
Just because you're a retard and can't into relationships it doesn't make fucking a professional whore a better alternative. Besides, one of the best things about a relationship is not being alone in your own bed. Fucking someone and choking them making them whimper your name capping it with cuddling and falling asleep intertwined and waking up the next morning to fuck her again and make breakfast, not always in that order.

>>18165628

>Where does /adv/ get their escorts?

http://soprano-club.ch/

>>18165684

Lili is the top cutie

>>18165276

So despite all the "haters", I can sort of see the point.

I have been in multiple long term relationships, and they all ended badly. I know a ton of people in their 40's who are in a relationship that makes them miserable. And most importantly, since I am single I work out 5 days a week, I eat whatever I want and whenever I want, I don't have to do stuff I don't want, and I am spending most of my times either pursuing my dream career or hanging out with friends. Life really isn't that bad. I do miss sex though.

But what keeps me from going to escorts is the moral aspect of it. I do not ever want to fuck a woman who is forced to fuck me. It doesn't turn me on and I don't want to do upon others what I don't want others to do upon me.

How do you decide whether your prostitute is their out of her own free will?

>>18165696

fuck.. there*

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>>18165334

I could see how someone would think this.

>>18165276
The need to feel wanted, desired and validated. Insecurity over themselves as a person. Lack of "abundance" in dating.

I agree 100% that many relationships are shit, and I wouldn't advise any guy to actively look for one unless he really has his shit together and finds an actual stable girl.

People skip the "get your shit together" part and jump straight into a monogamous relationship or try to, then it backfries because they lack the emotional fitness to have the relationship that's good, and instead keep attracting similarly needy, neurotic, unstable people.

>>18165276
> The money I pay is a drop in the bucket compared to what a long-term relationship would cost
I never understood this - are you implying you pay EVERYTHING for you SO?
Because I've been in a relationship for 9 years and I saved a lot of money from being in it - everything is much cheaper when you share the costs with someone else, from rent to food to utilities to travelling to hobbies.
I get free unlimited amounts of sex, a best friend, and someone who pays 50% of my rent, pays for the groceries every other week and does the chores I dislike doing.

I mean, I get it - you don't want to be in a relationship. It's fine.
But it's not like you found a method to save money or anything.

>>18165696
>But what keeps me from going to escorts is the moral aspect of it. I do not ever want to fuck a woman who is forced to fuck me.

Same here man. I figured out a while ago that part of what makes sex enjoyable is being wanted by the person in that way. It shouldn't be a regrettable experience, it shouldn't be a neutral experience, it should be a pretty positive and uplifting one, even if it IS just a one night stand.

Because I actually want a relationship and commitment and to love and to feel loved. I want to give my life to someone and for them to give theirs to me. For them to be my Goddess and me to be their God.

Sex means absolutely nothing to me if I don't love the person. I've actually turned sex down because some loose chick just wanted to fuck like a hedonist and I knew I wouldn't ever marry her.

I honestly get fucking mad just thinking about it. I just want a virgin who is virgin by choice because she has morals. Not because religion, not because of fear or social status, but because she made the conscious choice to abstain.

I always thought women only wanted sex out of intimacy and bonding, not just because they wanted a good dicking. It makes no logical sense to me when you learn about how women are wired. The idea of women wanting or enjoying a one night stand makes no sense to me if they want intimacy. Even as a guy, I don't get it. I mean I don't like it when guys fuck random people, but I mean I get it because it's how they're wired.

>>18165753
>The idea of women wanting or enjoying a one night stand makes no sense to me if they want intimacy.

Do you think that women feel no physical pleasure during sex?
Add the excitement of first times, the thrill of that instinctual connection you sometimes feel with people, or the pure physical attraction you might have with someone... it's extremely pleasant, even without the intimacy.

Or do you think that women want sex just to breed and men want sex just to spread their semen? Because that's a fairly limited idea.

>>18165765

As I understand it, women rarely get off on penetration and get off best with clitoral stimulation.

>instictual connection you feel with people
There's no connection with one night stands. It's an animal act. There is no love or future involved. Personally, I'd feel disgusted with myself if I had sex with someone just cause I liked their physical features. Could I do it, as in could I get aroused enough? Probably. But I'd hate myself and feel grossed out the entire time.

>Or do you think that women want sex just to breed and men want sex just to spread their semen?
Pretty much. That's what my elders and the media told me all my life and it fucked me up severely a decade or so ago when I found out it's apparently not the case and women are just as much of a pig as men are, if not more-so. I still haven't been able to wrap my head around it.

>>18165280
>>18165284
Just get a dog

What's going on in a prostitutes mind when she's being paid to fuck a guy that she might be willing to fuck for free?

>>18165781
>As I understand it, women rarely get off on penetration and get off best with clitoral stimulation.
But that's clearly a huge simplification. A large part of women can get off from penetration, and many of them enjoy penetration even if they don't reach orgasm. And, anyway, you can have clitoral stimulation while having sex.

>There's no connection with one night stands. It's an animal act.
You do institutionally feel connected or attracted, with some people. That "chemistry" thing people talk about. It is obviously not love, but strong superficial attraction and a kind of similarity that makes you feel deeply close to each other.

>I found out it's apparently not the case and women are just as much of a pig as men are, if not more-so.
We're pigs in different ways. Men are more into visual stimulation ("that girl is hot, I'd fuck her") while women are more aroused by mood ("this guy makes me feel like I am the best and I'm the centre of the universe, I'd fuck him"). Men also have a higher sexual drive than women.

But, yeah - we all enjoy sex.

>>18165276
I'm mostly afraid of diseases, and the law. You know stuff like that.

As a man in a long term relationship, I honestly wish I had done what OP is doing. Relationships are a scam, you'll get tired of it eventually like everyone does, and the sex dries up because you can only fuck the same women so many different ways before you just want something else.

I haven't felt any difference between "relationship" sex and just one night stand, regular sex. It's the same result, scratching that itch for sex people have, but you eventually get tired of the relationship sex because it's always with the same person and humans aren't even naturally monogamous.

>>18165806

>That "chemistry" thing people talk about. It is obviously not love, but strong superficial attraction and a kind of similarity that makes you feel deeply close to each other.
But if you feel that connection, why would it even be a one night stand? Why wouldn't you pursue them further? That's what I don't get. I'm incapable of understanding the idea of hitting it and quitting it. Maybe it's because I'm naturally clingy and have a dire need for intimacy and that rush of oxytocin, but it's just frustrating that it's just accepted because that's how society is now but for some reason it's so hard for me to understand it as if I'm the only one who can't. Sometimes I literally wish I was gay so I could just date dudes and not feel frustrated with trying to figure this out. It just makes me misogynistic, but I don't want to be.

Thank you for the information, though. The fact that women (at least generally speaking apparently) aren't visual makes me feel a little less disgusted with them. Also, sorry for venting. I've just wrestled with this and jumped through hundreds of mental hoops over the past decade that it's hard not to.

>>18165832
Because sometimes there's nothing more than that superficial chemistry, because sometimes you aren't in the right place to have a relationship, because sometimes after you fuck you don't feel anything for them.

You clearly aren't the only one who cannot have a ONS, I'd say that most people don't have casual sex routinely and never had a ONS (or at least where I live that's the case). And I don't see how it'd be better if you were dating dudes, they often want non-committal sex more than girls do.