>8 years with the same girl, 2 years engaged. She cheated

>>18164905
Went back to a cheater
Went bareback on a cheater

You're lucky you're just getting a child out of this. She cheated bareback, you could've gotten an STD.

Forget the nudes, just do the mother in

> I am thinking of spreading all the nudes to everyone she knows

Revenge porn is a crime, don't do that

Just leave her you moron

>>18164915
This

And don't bring her mother into it. I get that you're upset but you're not thinking rationally. After you confiemthe child isnt yours, cut her out of your.lifd entirely.
Living well is the best revenge

when similar happened to me i was more mad at myself for being so naive, i expected better of myself
its a whore, a trash whore yet there was i like a fool being played, lied to betrayed
its ok to be a fool actually, you did what you thought is best, didnt work out

id slap the bitch if i meet her ever again though

>>18164915
I wanted to do it smart if I did. Something like setting up a website where you agree upon entering that you have express permission from her to view the images.
Therefore only people who she's allowed can view them. Not my responsibility if people agree without reading the terms.
Same setup as agreeing to be 18 to view. Moves the responsibility.

>>18164922
I'm somewhat of an idealist. I expect the best of people. I knew she might be lying, but I wanted to have hope in her.
Now I just want her to crash and burn.
If it's a child born from her betrayal I want constant reminders for her what it cost her.

Any other advice besides whiteknighting?

Are you so sure the kid isn't yours? Like, if you go nuclear on her and her family, that could be your son/daughters life ruined by extension.

Also, how did any of this affect your family?

>>18164971
8 years together, my family was very close to her. My mother died, she's the only girl who will ever know her or that part of me. We all feel betrayed, though I feel it the most. Not to mention them going through me having a child, then it being a miscarriage, then it being alive again but potentially not mine. They have been through a rollercoaster with her.

It probably would be wise to wait until the baby is born and get a court ordered paternity test done. Regardless, it being my child and going nuclear sounds fine. I'll get shared custody, with "dad" they get to live like a millionaire and with mom like trailer trash. When they are old enough to understand I can explain what a detritus oxygen squandering lying piece of shit their mother is.
They can look at her with contempt for a lifetime.

>>18164956
Just tell her to fuck off and have some goddamn willpower
She's a harpy, the kid probably isn't yours

>>18164905
Just move on. Anyone one would be rightfully angry in that situation but destroying her life won't accomplish anything.

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>>18164905
Just fucking leave. Quit being dramatic.