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Is it disrespectful or wrong to stay with your parents during college, but asking if your gf could stay as well?
I'm currently attending community college, while she is finishing her degree as well. We both plan on getting our own place, but it seems illogical to add the cost of an apt plus other expenses when we both have student loan debt. I brought up the idea to my parents but they say it's disrespectful, even if we offer to pay rent. I fully intend on marrying this girl in the future. It seems like a logical idea. How would you react if your child asked you this question?
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If you're paying rent and space isn't an issue I don't see the problem
High potential for awkward scenarios to play out though
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If you both are willing to pay rent, and bills then your parents should be happy. I know my Dad would.
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>>18164636
Personally i wouldn't mind but you have to acknowledge that your parents are a couple too and they like their privacy as much as anyone else. Dont judge them if they say no, its ubderstandable
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I lived with my parents while I studied, and they were more than happy to have me. If my SO wanted to live there too, they'd probably expect them to pay at least board and a share of the bills, and I would too.
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>>18164636
>living with your gf, in your parents place
sounds awkward. like getting a new sister. If she's paying off for bills, food, etc, then I guess it's fine. But then again, i have no idea why the hell you'd want to be next to her 24/7. a relationship needs space
>is it disrespectful;
if she's not paying her due, it's kind of fucked up
>what would I think
I would think my kid is extremely impatient and naive
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>>18164636
You and your gf should find a job to afford a place of your own
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