Am I a lesbian or what? Sometimes: >check girls >want

>>18164354
Most girls are like this so you are probably not a lesbian.

But...

Have you had any sort of sexual or romantic experience with a girl?
Did you enjoy it?
Could you imagine dating/sex with a girl?

Then you are probably lesbian or bi

>>18164354
most folk are a little bi-curoius, but majorly straight. I can appreciate a hot guy's bod, even want to share a girl with him... I even jerk it to MMF threesomes where the guys kiss and stuff... But I'm straight as fuck, and love vagina.

>>18164372
I've only cuddled with a girl and I had a crush on her
I wouldn't date a girl that's weird, i just want to have sex with one

>>18164354

I think some research has indicated that most women are somewhat bi at an underlying level. Its nothing to feel bad or weird about.

>>18164372
>Could you imagine dating/sex with a girl?

I can imagine enjoying sex with dudes. I am however happily married. This is a poor litmus test.

>>18164376
if you want to have sex with a girl you are probably bi or lesbian

also if you had a crush on a girl? probably points to that direction too?

however i would recommend trying it to know for sure lol

obviously when you are single

>>18164354
OP here, should I try out a threesome or would it fuck with my head?

There's this thing called the Kinsey scale, named after the guy who came up with it and certain theories attached to it. It's a scale basically for categorizing how gay or straight someone is that ranges from "exclusively heterosexual" to "exclusively homosexual." Kinsey's studies showed that most people actually fall somewhere between those two extremes, and that some straight people are actually mostly straight, but still have an "yeah, I'd try boning somebody of the same sex, in the right situation, if they were hot enough, if I got the opportunity" attitude about it.

If you look it up, you may find a test to fill out if you want to see where you'd land on it.

>>18164386
no don't have a threesome esp with your bf
esp if you said you get jealous of his exes and shit

have a threesome if youre single with randoms or something

>>18164354
I brought up the threesome thing with my boyfriend and he said yeah but I'm scared I'll regret it later and also scared about stds

>>18164386
Have threesome, it will only clear up whatever's going on in your head. Things don't make sense now because of a lack of experience

>>18164390
I think I'll try that out
>>18164392
But I don't want to be single and I can't do the random thing because it might be awkward and scary without my boyfriend. He said he would even just agree to not touching the other girl and just watching us....would that be awkward?

>>18164412
definately have bf with you. If threesome goes south it's important to have an emptional rock like that to rest on

>>18164398
What if it doesn't end up being what I imagined?

>>18164420
First, it will never be like you imagined
Second, whatever conclusion you can draw from having a threesome in a safe environment with your bf will almost certainly lead you closer to you 'true self' I can't think of a less bullshitty sounding way of expressing that.

>>18164412
i dont know my view is a bit biased because i had a threesome with my bf and then after that he started seeing and sleeping with the girl behind my back.

But if you trust your bf 100% it should be fine

And even if your bf doesn't touch the other girl, you might still feel jealous or something

Its such a hard thing to give advice on, if you feel comfrotable doing it, do it!

But just from what ive previously gone through I wouldnt do that ever again

>>18164425
>>18164433
I'm so undecided because a part of me wants it and I feel like I'll always be curious if I don't do it ...but at the same time I hate girls who even come up to my man and talk to him.

>>18164354
no

I know that sorting out your feelings on the idea first before making a move is an important first step, but from a practical point of view: Is it really that easy for all of you people to just walk out and find a girl that you're attracted to and comfortable with that would just be down for a threesome at the drop of a hat? The general impression I get around this site is that it's already hard enough to pick up chicks as it is even even without any forms of deviancy.

>>18164440
Do the him looking thing and find a lesbian girl who's not interested in him I guess.

I mean you're sexually attracted to your bf/males as well as females, right?
also, I was in the same position you were lol I thought I could never date a girl, only like her sexually, but I think I was just in denial. if you're sexually attracted to someone you can probably form a romantic relationship with them too

>>18164440
One really important part of threesomes is to respect both of the other involved parties' feelings and make sure all parties are communicating, comfortable, and consenting. Nobody wants to feel like a third wheel, and if you can't properly respect a new sex partner you want to bring to play with you and your boyfriend, you probably shouldn't bother. Try to imagine how you'd feel if you were invited to be involved in a threesome between some other girl and her boyfriend, and you weren't even allowed to talk to the guy because she'd get too jealous. If you can find somebody down for your terms, then great, but get a clear grasp of what those terms would be if you were to do this.

>>18164445
pretty much this

>>18164354
Nah. You're normal.
Again, like in this post >>18164373
most people really do lean both directions to some extent, but just lean very heavily straight. I'm one of them and I'm aware that, yes, given very specific traits and such, both physical and emotional, I can be attracted to another male. It's very rare for me because again, it's very specific things that I need, but it's happened.

Though I've noted that attraction I've never really acted on it. I'm not into gay porn either and when it comes to dicks specifically, I just don't feel anything when it comes to seeing them - It's pretty much how I feel about everything else.

I think maybe as a girl you lean a bit more toward liking the same sex than I do given you watch the porn and stuff but still lean mostly straight. You're not abnormal though.

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OP, you are acting totally normal, and in line with a lot of girls I know.

If you do a threesome, get ready to plant the seed of jealousy. IMO, threesomes only work when you have nothing to lose, and it looks like you do.

>>18164433

This is an good example of that happening. Sounds like you ladies are pretty young, don't be stupid to boot.

>>18164354
>Are most girls like this?

Yes

>>18164376
Nigga you gay

>>18164386

As a bi girl, no. The potential for it to go wrong is vast, and cucking is never respectable.

Girls are pretty fluid, sexually. It's totally normal. Although, if you're the jealous type I would advise not getting into a threesome situation.

Also, dating girls is not weird. It's just like dating a man except the chores are more evenly shared and they don't take undue delight in farting.

>>18164776
I get along better with guys, girls are scary, emotional and get offended by everything...generally. I don't think girls who date girls are weird, I'm just saying I'd personally find it weird and can't imagine dating a girl without feeling uncomfortable. I want to feel like a helpless girl wrapped in the security that comes from manly arms.

>>18164354
What do you rate taylor/10?

>>18164920
On the scale of regular people a 7.5 but if we're talking celebrities she is a 5

I like curvier girls, eyes are too small and I'm not crazy about blondes.

>>18164920
11/10 the most beautiful person in the world

>>18164932
Dude, no.

>>18164354
Our culture is saturated with images of women as sex objects, to sell everything. It is therefore not surprising that even totally straight women have been culturally trained to see women as sexy and attractive. This leads some totally straight women to worry that they are bi or lesbian, when they're not.

On the other hand, some essentially straight women are bi-curious, and it can be hard to tell the difference. One test - is your appreciation of other women essentially aesthetic, or is it specifically sexual? (To be blunt, do you want to lick a pussy?)

>>18164929

Taylor is like a goddamn 8.5-9 what is wrong with you.

I think that, while she isn't even my type.

>>18164386
Bro. No. You'll ruin your relationship. Threesomes are awkward as shit.

>>18164979
I told you, blonde and skinny isn't my type.

>>18164948
Yes I do

>>18165467
Then do it. Either you'll like it or you won't. Either way will answer most of your questions.

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>>18164979
That's a 9

>>18164386
I'm a guy and my gf was bi curious and jealous like you. After a ton of talking, we tried a threesome, and after two bad experiences, we got so involved with a girl that my gf even admited having some feelings for her.

Beware though, that you should only try that if you're 100% happy with your relationship. You're potentially bi and there's nothing wrong in liking both, so if you really like girls you can have threesomes every once in a while to get your fix.