So my mother is a psycho alcoholic mess, and I'm thinking about cutting all contact with her.
I've given her so many chances to get her shit together and try to salvage our relationship over the past few years, shes been to rehab and other programs several times, but every time she ends up taking advantage of me or someone else in my family. The rest of my family has stopped talking to her altogether, including my two older sisters and her husband (not my father), and I'm basically the only one left in her life. She's suicidal and tried to overdose last year and that's basically the only reason I haven't completely shunned her yet, but I have to ask: when should I say enough?
Every time she relapses or has an episode it puts an incredible amount of stress on my already stressful life between work and school and whatnot, and since I'm the only person left in contact, I have to bear the full brunt of it.
I really don't feel like I should have to babysit my own mother, but she'll likely try to commit suicide instead of trying to fix her life.
Any advice?
Couple things I forgot to mention: She's about to be kicked out of her apartment because her husband left her and she makes minimum wage and won't be able to afford a place to live.
Second, I gave her "one last chance" (probably the 10th last chance I've given her) a few days ago after she drank again, and she blew it by showing up to my house drunk as shit and trying to kick my door down because I wouldn't let her in.
>>18163341
nothing to loose let her go
>>18163341
let her suicide then steal her shit. set it up so u r kinda responsible but can get away with it. proceed to loot her house
>>18163341
Sounds shitty but cut ties. If she dies it's not your fault.
Awful situation your in, my gf is in the very same situation.. Giving her yet another chance despite being basically a scumbag for over 20 years.
Shes the last one of the family to still be involved with her, Her mom has lasted around a month before the evil personality has started to return.
I wish she would just cut ties as it brings her down every time this happens.
Good luck OP