Is losing my viriginity to a prostitute worth it? Its legal where

>>18162538
Also interested in this.

>>18162538
>Will I regret it? Will I not?
We don't fucking know, we're not fortune tellers.

Consider this though: is the fact that you had to pay a woman to pretend to like you enough to have sex with you going to make you feel better about yourself? Is anything ACTUALLY going to change once you have sex?

>>18162538
Not worth. No kissing or any intimate feelings. Just lame. They can't even give you a bj without a condom. Condom bj is lame. Afterwards you feel disgusted cuz you know they've been with someone Polly right before arriving to you.

If you make a big deal about sex it probably wouldn't be that bad of an idea. Had my second time with a prostitute and if you are aware of what to expect (no kissing, no cuddling, only sex) then that shouldn't be a problem. My first time was horrible and so I was very shy with the prostitute, but since she got paid well and was a professional she could get around it. Only thing: Don't throw away your money for cheap prostitutes.
I was in Cologne in a sauna club, was worth the money!

Personally I think the best part of sex is the intimacy and feeling of being desired, not the physical act itself. You don't get that with a prostitute. Frankly a good hour long fap session is better.

Although, that said, I was in Bremerhaven a few years ago and found this girl in the red light district who was an absolute 10/10 to my personal tastes. 6 foot tall, blonde, THICK hourglass figure, cowtits and a great ass. As soon as I saw her I knew I couldn't resist. Generally speaking fapping is better, but fulfilling that fantasy was worth 30 euro.

But fucking a whore so you aren't a virgin is a bad reason. If you're obsessing over being a virgin then fucking a whore just for that reason probably won't make you feel better, it might even make you feel pathetic for it.

I did it. It helped. A lot. Mostly for the whole not being a virgin anymore. The sex itself was not that great and it'll fuck up your expectations of sex a bit since hookers fuck like porn stars, but knowing that if you die tomorrow you wont die a virgin cured a lot of stress for me.

I say do it but don't cheap out. When they bring the girls out to inspect... Don't go with a girl over 27. Don't go with anything lower than a 7/10 and think "good" enough. Pay close attention to details like how their flesh fits into their underwear/outfit in case they are hiding an unsightly body. Look closely at their face and see if their make-up is going to cover their imperfections when things get even more up close and personal. This will be tricky considering that you are going to be in a dark room. You're also going to be in a situation where you can't think clearly. She'll be touching you, and you dumb dick will be hijacking your brain and your nerves will be a mess because there's money at stake. Don't go with a girl until you've seen all of them. Don't "settle" with the one that was good enough or the best looking pig in the barn. If none of them truly grab you then leave. It's likely a poorly managed brothel that would hire dreg women who won't do shit for you either. The meme about the ugly girl being better at sex because she's more grateful isn't true. Women's sexuality is defined by them as an object to be acted on. Give you girlfriend (when you get one) good make up, lingerie, clothing etc. And see how much better they fuck you when they feel more attractive. Once again... If the girls don't appeal to you then leave. Find another brothel.

Don't go with a girl who will be uninterested or do the bare minimum. Don't buy less than an hour of time so you feel like you're racing. Don't go in the evening on a weekend when their worn out, loose and just wanting it to be all over.

>>18164110

Make sure you're well rested and in good condition. Above all make sure you're well dressed and look rich. Going in there as an insecure nerdy young man is one thing. Going in as an insecure nerdy young man who looks richer than their usual clientele of truckers and pajeets will make a big difference. Tell her you "work in IT." But don't wear a t-shirt and hoodie like somebody who actually works in IT. Wear a nice button up shirt.

They will want your repeated patronage and will give you a very nice girlfriend experience to ensure it. And tell her you are a virgin as well and she will accommodate. Make sure you can have a giggle with her to ensure she's at least going to try to provide the female experience you're paying for and being more than just a meathole.

Also: it might be worth getting used to the feeling of a condom if you're not already.

>>18164115

Also: don't grow attached to the girl. She'll do everything she can to hook you back in a have you believe that you're special. You are not. This should be a one off or a once in a blue moon thing and you should use the experience to be as educational as possible. My advice is that you don't go for "the service" which is the mechanical sequence of massage. Handjob. Oral (with condom on) and then fuck. Say you want to do something more organic which might be a bit tricky. They might ask you take a shower beforehand which means you'll already be naked. Avoid it if you can but if you can't have the session kick off with her fully clothed (in her outfit/underwear) and start slowly as you would imagine natural sex would go. Think about romantic movies with sex scenes and not porn with it's perfectly contrived sex positions for the camera.

I forgot to mention too... When you're inspecting the girls and they ask if you're into anything in particular, specify kissing. The strange thing is that there are girls who would do anal before they kiss.

Depending on where you go, what you're asking for may be defined as GFE (girlfriend experience) and may cost more. I suggest you do it though. The idea is to learn what you can so you don't have to go to a brothel again.

Ideally after your session you should be more comfortable around women and understand the physiological cues from them when escalating physical intimacy is welcome. You are more of a Chad than you think and you may even look back and realise there were times you could have fucked a girl but we're too nervous and inexperienced to have read the situation.

Also: see how you are with women straight after you leave the brothel. Maybe go and catch up with a girl you know. I suspect that they can smell other women's sex pheromones on you and a primal sense of competition may make them attracted to you.

>>18164115
>>18164208

Fucking fantastic info; thanks anon. I'm >>18162613.

I went to a strip club once and it was a great experience. Thinking back though, I had just come from a formal event and looked fly as fuck. That could have had something to do with it, as you suggest.

>>18162538
>I am 21. Will I regret it?

Ja wirst du.

Habe mit 22 meine V-Card an eine Prostituierte verloren und es war um ehrlich zu sein ein großer Fehler.

Wie auch immer, wenn du es doch tun möchtest empfehle ich dir bei kaufmich eine Dame zu suchen statt in irgendwelche clubs oder Hurenhäuser zu gehen. Da gibt es zumindest den Hauch von Intimität.