My girlfriend walked out on me at a party for smoking weed and literally all of my friends saw it happen.
We've been going out for a year and a half, and she knew going into the relationship that I was a pothead. We've had arguments about it before but she would eventually just accept that fact eventually.
I can't really blame her for boiling over, she's been going through a lot of stuff herself recently.
I don't know how to respond to this situation. My friends will never think anything good about her again now.
>>18162326
Look, it's pretty simple - is your identity as a self-described "pothead" more important to you than your relationship with your girlfriend? Do you feel that she's just being judgmental and unfair, or do you think that she has a point?
If she's been clear about her dislike of your marijuana use from the beginning of your relationship, which it sounds like it has been, I don't know why you thought that would never be a problem. You sound incompatible with one another on at least that issue, so either one of you needs to concede or it's time for you both to move on to other people.
>>18162326
who gets triggered over smoking weed o an occasional basis?
>>18162395
Controlling bitches who need to be dropped
>>18162326
Drop your girl. She's not okay with your spiritual assistant that is weed.
>>18162326
Fuck her for that. If she knew you were a pot head and she said she'd just accept it then she's being ridiculous for giving you shit for it again, especially around your friends
Be a man, put your foot down. Tell her that you like to smoke and that she can fuck right off if she has a problem with it
>>18162326
We've had our ups and downs when it came to my habit. I've been smoking my whole adult life so it would be extremely difficult to just up and stop smoking.
We all have our bad habits. I like to think of my weed smoking as negligible compared to some of her bad habits.
She's a hypochondriac to a certain level, so the storming out could be linked to that. We were also at a friends house who's house she wasnt comfortable being over by. My initial plan was to pick her up later on that night after we left his house, but she insisted on coming, saying she would be ok with being over there.
I was the one that brought the weed to the party, so everyone was waiting on me to smoke. As we were getting ready to do that she texted me saying if i smoked she would walk home.
This seemed like a pretty bullshit ultimatum to me, especially considering I smoke in front of her all the time, and was the one supplying the weed that night.
Maybe we aren't compatible. Oddly enough, everything in our relationship is going fantastic. The problems we have are always because of her manner of thinking.
>>18162326
Well, weed does destroy brain cells, but if she knew that you were a degenerate weed smoker already then she can only blame herself.
Stop smoking weed - what are you a nigger?
>>18162532
Holding smoke in your lungs for longer than 30 seconds will destroy braincells.
Holding your breath longer than 60 seconds will destroy braincells.
Braincells die because of a lack of oxygen. It has nothing to do with weed and everything to do with hypoxia.
Thanks for your input though, anon.
>>18162553
And now tell us that weed is completely healthy, cures everything (mental disorders included) and never in any way possible turns people into relaxed uncaring potheads.
>>18162326
Have you considered to drop it OP? Like maybe you can get hooked on something else or do something else. Maybe she just wants to make you a better version of you.
>>18162326
I mean as long as you are handling your shit then she shouldn't care especially if was a known thing going into a relationship.
>>18162594
Hey nice strawman you set up there /pol/tard.
No one is going to argue that inhaling smoke isn't bad for you. But lots of things aren't healthy such as cigs, booze, and processed sugars, yet we allow adults to make their own decisions in the name of freedom. Why should marijuana be any different? Because you don't like it?
>>18162326
Well at least you have good taste in women.
>>18162326
Tell her to stop being such a fucking conservacuck
weed is literally harmless
>>18162395
Given that OP describes himself as a pothead, I'd say that it happens more than occasionally
>>18162326
Where do you live OP