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>meet girl at college back in late 2015
>talk to her during class, get to know her
>get her contact info after finals to keep in touch
>talk a shit ton, find out we have MANY similar interests such as video games, music, computation, and economics
>hang out a couple times
>few months ago I initiated romance and went for the kiss, all was good
>next hangout after, kissed again. Took advice from friends and anons and asked her out
>got rejected
>"I don't want to get into it already. I want to take it slow"
>took it as rejection, although I get VERY mixed answers from friends about what it could have meant
>hung out twice after, we still treat each other the same as if we're just great friends. Not awkward, but we just don't talk about romance anymore
How do I come up from this? How do I get a second chance and not fuck it up?
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I also want to add that she's one of the most awkward motherfuckers I know. Nerdy ass Mexican girl, never dated. I was her first kiss. She's 21.
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>>18161429
How is she awkward?
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>>18161443
She's very quiet in class. Always in the back. Only made 3 friends at school out of her almost 4 years attending.
It's high levels of social anxiety. However, around me she's completely fine. Totally lose and open, as we became comfortable with each other. Even then, rejection. What do?
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>>18161463
Loose*
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stop giving her attention and act dismissive of her. talk with other people, especially girls. make her choose to come back to you and when/if she does, escalate. kiss her again. if she rejects you again then you should move on because you don't want people like this in your life.
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>>18161517
Hmm. Make her attracted to me by making her fear loss?
Fuck man, that's way far from my character. It does make sense that it would work, I only worry now she'd notice the sudden character change.
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