A guy picked another girl over me He said he liked her because

>>18156373

Just because one guy doesn't like you or doesn't want to date you, doesn't mean you are undatable or unlikable. It doesn't even mean you're unlikable to that guy, he just happened to like the other chick better. Just find another guy who likes you just fine, even if you're not that ambitious or creative. Don't let insecurity win.

Don't assume you need to change yourself because one guy didn't like you. That's dumb. Don't be dumb.

>>18156383
But I've never been able to find a guy who like me in that way. I've never been on a date.

>>18156386
Go to parties get with dudes not to hard unless your super fugly

>>18156437
That's how you get hookups, not boyfriends

>>18156373
Look here
>>18156462
two dudes around 25 almost virgins ready to date. Guess how you can meet them? You can hope both of you goes to some retarded social event or you can try online dating to maximize chances of meeting people from same area.

Your choice.

some people are looking for specific things in relationships, and they don't see them in you at the moment but they see them in someone else. it doesn't mean you're not dateable or likeable, they just don't think a relationship with you is what they're looking for. luckily people are basically all the same, so you can date someone else and have virtually the same experience.

>>18156512
But no one wants to date me, not just him.

No one wants to date a mopey Myrtle

>>18156373
>>18156520
Lower your standards. The fact that you're on 4chan tells me so much.

At best you're a 5/10. Even if you are decent looking enough, your mental health issues and your sick humor and hobbies (video games anime) bring you down to a 5, possibly lower.

And trust me this assessment of you is accurate, you wouldn't be here otherwise. You would be on reddit instead.

With all thst being said, you need to lower your standards. You arent going to get captain of the football team. You wont be getting the male model. You wont be getting the guy who takes care of himself and whos healthy.

You swimming in the wrong pond. You need to swim on down to the lowly sawmp and find yourself a hardworking ambitious..... 6/10.

>>18156547
>You would be on reddit instead.

Either you've never visited reddit before, or you met a chick there who blew you hard and the memories of this relationship were not ruined by a dramatic breakup. Reddit itself is like a cross between 4chan and slashdot, two bad ideas rolled into one worse idea.

>>18156547
I don't have high standards, it's not like I'm rejecting guys I think aren't good enough. I've never rejected anyone.

>>18156547
>projecting this hard
Just because you're a loser, doesn't mean everyone here is.

>>18156496
That's bullshit. It is not mandatory to fuck with people you meet at parties, you can just socialise, meet new people and maybe meet someone interesting.
It's just a way to socialise - you can do it through school, hobbies or volunteering. It's the same fucking concept.

>>18156574
Did my assessment hit a little to close to home for you,? You're so upset just diagnosed your worthless ass along with the fat whore of an op.

Btfo.

>>18156551
You dont know anything, shut up. Reddit is one of the most popular sites in the world. Its were normal people go to get their edge. Famous people do "ask me anything" there because its such a normal place to gather compared to 4chan.

>>18156581
Ok but I've only ever found either friends or hookups that way, not someone to date.

How does it move from friends to dating?

>>18156596
Be somewhat attractive and fun. Flirt. Ask each other out.

You make it sound like it is rocket science.

>>18156605
I've been rejected whenever I've asked someone out and no one has ever asked me out

How exactly do you flirt?

>>18156609
Then you're either physically repulsive, or annoying, or both.

Flirt by complimenting, making each other laugh, touching each other laughing, establishing eye contact, make lightly sexual jokes, etc.

>>18156609
Post photo of yourself. I wanna see girl with no social skills whatsoever she gets rejected.

Are you by any chance
>piercing
>tattoo
>fat
>feminist
>vegetarian
>dum dumb
?

>>18156590
>Did my assessment hit a little to close to home for you,? You're so upset just diagnosed your worthless ass along with the fat whore of an op.
I'm 7/10 on a bad day, I'm in a happy, stable long term relationship, I have a good education, a good job and an active social life, I'm physically and mentally and financially healthy, and I don't feel the need to bring others down to make myself feel better.

Like I said, stop projecting.

>>18156547
Most people won't get a 10/10 male model with the brain and wallet of Bill Gates.

Being on 4chan doesn't immediately make you a 3/10, neither as a girl or as a guy. I met great people on here. You're projecting super hard.

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>>18156681
Im sure you are op.
You're big boy. I see thst now. You sure proved yourself to me. Totally convinced me.

I see now that my assessment didnt hit too close to home for you. Congrats on all those accomplishments!

>>18156681
Lying on the internet doesn't help prove your point, ever.

>>18156707
You can doubt me all you want, it doesn't really affect me. I'm not going to feel like shit if it's true. The fact that you're so adamant that everyone here is a loser says a lot about you though.

>>18156703
The one projecting is you. The realize the comments apppied to you as well. It triggered you so bad you had to reply in an attempt to repair your damaged ego.

This is a common coping mechanism. It happens a lot on /adv/.

>>18156715
Yeah. It says a lot about me.
It says I think you are a loser.

>>18156729
k

>>18156373
I'm going to guess your fat OP, and that's why the guy doesn't like you. Probably ugly face too

>>18156724
Other than the sense of humour and a burnout when I was 19, nothing in that list applies to me.
Slightly over average in looks, normie/creative hobbies, healthy mentally and financially, normal social life other even if I am introverted.

I never had troubles getting a relationship, I've been in a very happy one for years - my boyfriend is kinda above average in looks and a great person.

Your whole post was really stupid. That's really it.

>>18156560
>i've never rejected anyone

yeah, keep telling yourself that

>>18156373
You're a girl. Most single guys on the street would date you even if you're a 1/10. Get the fuck over it.

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>>18156960
This, and also pic related. OP wanted someone out of her league to give up his own options for her. If a guy doesn't have better options then OP will turn up her nose at that one.

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>The amount of cancer in this thread

Everyone is beautiful to someone. The really unlucky people are only beautiful to a couple of people, but a couple is all you really need. Once you find someone, you won't care about all the people who rejected you leading up to that point.

Be visible. I would love an autistic hideous gf with no friends, but they all stay home so I never meet them.

Make friends with guys first. I know the whole "friendzone" thing is debatable, but for guys, it absolutely does not exist. We would fuck any female friend who has not already fucked another male friend.

Once you're friends with a guy, you can talk about feelings. Admit to being sad and lonely. If you've picked a sufficiently autistic and pathetic male friend, he will be amazed that he's finally found a girl he has something in common with, and things will become a lot more likely.

By the way, I noticed you have UK spelling. If you live in Manchester, I'd happily be your balding obese decade-older-than-you friend.