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Here's the rundown I'm still a virgin at 30 years old, not a TOTAL virgin as I've at least got alot of the pre-game stuff out of the way like making out,touching, and oral. I'm just feeling severely pent up but I don't wanna pay a escort/hooker for my first time.
How I would like to lose my virginity is with no strings attached and with someone who's aware of my virginity and still want to have sex with me despite that, They'd still have to be someone attractive of course otherwise I won't stay hard for them at all.
Yet I've been told that for a middle age guy that's like finding a unicorn and that I'm just not meant to have sex, and that I'd be better off just paying an escort or a hooker and get it over with. that wounded me hard and at first I reacted quite defensively over it and dismissed him but after I started to calm down it made me wonder if maybe that guy was right....I mean how can you tell anyway?
Am I really asking for too much?
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Most women won't care that much. For some it may even be a bonus.
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Why do you care if she is aware if you're a virgin? Just find some slag and pump and dump. It isn't hard.
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>>18154356
Because I don't wanna get a girls hopes up only for them to potentially be disappointed and turn off by my lack of experiences and know how. This is my attempt of being considerate to them.
Pump and dump would be just fine after I lose my virginity properly.
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>>18154374
No wonder you're a virgin. Whether they like to admit it or not women find a man that treats them like shit hot.
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>>18154396
Annnd I just don't have it in me to treat them like shit.
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>>18154374
Eh, don't worry about it. The worst case scenario is that you'll be a lousy lay. If it's a one night stand type thing, it's almost to be expected.
If you really care about someone and want a relationship with them, if they're the right person, they won't care and it shouldn't be a big deal if you tell them.
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Just don't say anything and go with the flow. Anyone who's a decent classy human being wouldn't ask how many times you have had sex. It's nobody's business.
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>>18154374
I'm 26 and I've had sex twice several years ago.
I still feel as you do. I feel incredibly intimidated by sex and I worry that if I have sex again that I'll be awful and be nothing but a disappointment. I don't want to have sex again unless the girl is understanding of my concerns
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>>18154374
There are plenty of men that had tons of sex and still have lousy sex.
If the sex is bad, just tell her that you are very stressed and couldn't really focus or any other excuse on that line.
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>>18154526
I don't care if the sex is bad for my first time, that's inevitable, I just would prefer that my first partner be prepared for it and accepting of it however I'm told girls ALL want their casual partners to have experience....
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>>18154331
Why someone who wants to sleep with you would change their mind as you say you're virgin?
It's surprising, but that's it.
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>>18155396
It's happened before....and I've lost friends for asking them to help deflower me for it.
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>trying to justify your virgin creepyness by saying you've made it to first base lol
>being a virgin at all in the tinder age
Never gonna make it, brah
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How do you treat a women like shit and have them like you? Ive treated certain women like shit and hot the responce of im a scumbag in return not the douchebag girls want to fuck
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>>18154331
Take a trip to latin america
Gringo with eye color other than brown = pussy
No prostitues needed
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>>18155487
I made through all the bases except home Bruh.
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>>18155498
What are girls down there loose or something?
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