So my boyfriend got a dream job in another country and is moving

>>18147252

make yourself the main character in your own story, instead of a satellite character in someone elses.

Depends, what's the gameplan? You guys have been together long enough to consider moving there together imo.

>>18147257
I cannot move away from here for the next 3 years. I started school here and I have to finish.
We've been together for nearly 9 years, since we were 14.

>>18147256
I have a life - friends, family, hobbies, my studies. I am happy.

I haven't been without him for more than a week in years. I cannot see why I should go through the day if it's not to sit down with him at home at night, have a beer and just talk bullshit.

>>18147252
And what? You all just never talked about this while he was applying for jobs or something? Shouldn't you have known this was potentially coming for a while and been mentally prepared for it if you at all encouraged it?

>>18147308
Not really.
He applied for it but he never thought they picked him, he always said it wasn't going to happen. I didn't even think of the possibility he actually left.

>>18147305

again, main character, not satellite.

>BUT I HAVE HOBBIES AND AM HAPPY
>I JUST DONT SEE THE POINT IN EXISTING WITHOUT HIM

satellite.

>>18147305
>I cannot see why I should go through the day if it's not to sit down with him at home at night, have a beer and just talk bullshit.

You sound super clingy and dependent. You don't want advice. You just want to bitch about how much you don't want your bf to leave and how unfair it all is.

Moving on.

>>18147314
It isn't a videogame.
I spent almost 10 years of my life with this guy and every single day of the last 3 years living with him.
I don't even know how to function without him.

>>18147323

and now you'll finally learn how.

>>18147317
I am not really clingy. A bit dependent, but I guess it's kinda normal.