So me and my GF bought a vibrator and a cock ring too spice things

>>18146540

How big's your dink?

>>18146544

Above average, abt 16 cm. The vibrator is like 10 cm its supposed to be used for the g-spot and clit.

Also she had the happiest face after the orgasm that I have never seen before. I thought I would be happy because I like to please my GF.

It was also me how brought the whole thing up about buying a sex toy. I feel envious too the damn thing, how do I stop doing that?

It's ridiculous and suprise me that I feel like this...

>>18146559

Just accept this fate. Machines are taking over our jobs and our women too.

>>18146559
As a girl I'm pretty sure she liked it this much because YOU were using it on her.

My gf has one too but she doesn't like to use solo. She's extra excited now because it's a new sensation, and also a very easy, effortless way to orgasm. But it doesn't do anything by itself, so rest assured that she loves it because it's a kinky thing to do toghether.

Protip: use it while fucking for her ultimate bliss and a pulsating pussy around your dick

>>18146540
Anon don't be a gross jealous nutcase, It's just a vibrator and nothing is less attractive than desperate insecurity. My bf bought us a hitachi wand and it's pure bliss when he uses it on me, but it's "our" toy so I only use it on myself if he's out of the house for the night and I always tell him I have done.

This anon knows what's up >>18146620 sex with a vibrator is the best

get off 4chan you retard and enjoy pleasing eachother
its a fucking vibrator you gigantic assfag

>>18146540
OP, you should know that vibrators feel better to girls than cocks
Cocks don't hit the right spot

>>18146559
Talk to her about it anon, let her know how it makes you feel. I was just thinking about this actually, to ask my bf to bring my vibrator into the bedroom. I thought he might be a little insecure about it but then I thought that it would be different with him because he would do it differently than I would. And the fact that's he's the one doing it would make it hotter.
So keep in mind she may enjoy it more because she gets to feel that with you.

>tl;dr talk to her

>>18146620
>>18146615

Thanks for the replies and I know it's fucking stupid thoughts/feelings but I feeling better now after reading your guys answer!

We have used it when I fucked her and it was a pure bliss. And it's also her first toy so new sensation here too. But I think I need too just chill and not over think and everything is new too us. Well, thanks again guys.

>>18146635

Sure thing bud. It winds down a bit after a while. Tbh there are times when I want to use it on her and she doesn't want it, it's just so easy for those lazy days.

I had her use it on my dick too, it feels awesome with a bit of pressure. But as it wouldn't replace the real deal for me, it sure doesn't for them. Recently I haven't been able to do PiV and she clearly misses it, even though we're using the vibrator every other day.

Worst case it's a different thing, not better or worse than actual sex.

>>18146635
Yeah, don't worry it will not replace you or your dick
I use a vibrator on my gf to make her cum when I already did, but she can't do this on her own

>>18146540
Do you feel cuckolded by your finger when you finger her? think of the vibe as just an extension of you, and it is YOUR skill at using it, not the vibrations, that is getting her off.

I have a feeling you're feeling this way because your gf orgasmed harder and better than she ever has with you. And that's not a surprise cause your dick doesn't vibrate bro.

Imagine the reverse situation, your gf laying down beside you using a pocket pussy to get you off, and you blow a monster load in no time at all, a huge leg-shaking orgasm that leaves you grinning from ear to ear.
An orgasm that your gf has never encited from you...
She would feel like absolute fucking shit
She would start wondering why her big floppy vagina doesn't get you off like that.

What you're feeling is called inadequacy.

Here's my advice, ditch the fucking vibrator immediately, hopefully it's not too late but you may have already opened Pandoras box.

Here have an anecdote.
My last gf before I met my wife..
She loved vibrators, she rubbed one out all the time, it got to the point that her clit was so desensitized that it was the only way to get her off. My dick couldn't do it anymore, my hands couldn't do it anymore, my tongue was useless too.
Eventually the routine became that she would hand me the toy after I came to "finish the job".
This destroyed the relationship, I started to hate having sex with her, I didn't even want to do it. My self esteem plummeted, I hated myself, I didn't even feel like a man anymore, just a walking wallet to buy her groceries and shit.
By the time I dumped her we hadn't had sex in 2 months and that was My choice.

Now my wife is the flipside of the coin and I couldn't be happier. She doesn't even touch herself. The only time she gets off is when I get her off.
And my God she is so dam sensitive, it's wonderful.
I can rub her through her jeans and get her off no problem at all.
I fuck her every day and she has multiple orgasms every time.
It makes me feel amazing about myself, like I'm some kind of sex God. But I'm not, I'm just a normal guy.
So now I just count myself lucky that I found a woman who didn't ruin herself with sex toys.

>>18146757

lol this is such an anedocte that my gf is exactly like your wife, except she enjoys the vibrator too. The problem was your ex bro, not vibrator + women

The clit is the women's dickhead, you can make them cum with your dick obviously, I do all the time, but it'll rarelly beat stimulating the clit by hand or other means while doing that.

>>18146782
Well duh it's not the case for all women who use vibrators.
But yes it is entirely possible for a woman to overdo it and completely desensitize their clit, thus ruining their sex life with a future husband.
Guys can do it too, remember when /adv/ was flooded with guys afflicted with deathgrip syndrome? And the nofap movement was born? Well I remember that shit
It all comes down to moderation
>all things in moderation
Is a very fucking true statement

And trust me, a relationship with a woman who can't get off any other way is fucking shite.
It's hard to feel sexually competent when you're irrelevant in getting your girl off.
That's the point of my story.
And I'm allowed to draw and share conclusions from my own experiences.

To put it simply, if I compare my sexlife with The Force, vibrators are the fucking dark side.

>>18146540
>Because I'm not insecure at all and never have been.

Except you just told us flat out that you are insecure about it. Stop being a whinebucket. You ever felt like you wanted to just jack off or have a blowjob instead of sex? It's different and new, nothing wrong with that, especially since you're participating with her.

>>18146540
>We had just had sex and tried both things which was really good. Then I sat beside her and started to rub the vibrator on the clit and I suddenly felt like fucking cuck. That my manhood was gone etc, almost disgusted with myself.
It's a vibrator, not a nigger.
My wife has a vibrating bullet, I use it on her when she is giving me head, when she is on her period and we don't have a towel to hand, or whenever I'm fucking her.
She has an orgasm and ends up giving me head, or it gives her something to do when I'm working overtime.

As long as you aren't missing out because she is using a vibrator, then you have no reason to feel remotely like a cuck.

>>18146757

>inadequacy

That is the word I was looking for. Might bring it up to her but feels so pathetic.

>hey honey I'm feeling inadequacies and jealous over the vibrator I bought too you

Now I even sound like a cuck. Fuck.

>>18146844
There you go using that word again, you should read books more often because your grasp of the English language is being molded by the Internet.

A cuckold is a man whose wife has sex with another man.
A cuckold fetishist is a man whose wife has sex with another man and he gets off to it.

A vibrator is not another man

>>18146867

Well english isn't my first language.

Yes I know what cockold really is, I just use the word as a smear word.

>>18146892
Well stop it, using slang just confuses the discussion

You should use the vibrator while you are penetrating her or during foreplay. And take control of it when you do use it so that you are giving her pleasure and not merely watching her get herself off.

I wouldn't get into the habit of using one during sex though. It should be something you use once in a while for some variety.

>>18146896

Why would I? The word cuck has lately been synonymous with "being weak". That's why I use it.

>>18146908
Because you are directly contributing to the degeneration of the English language.

More on topic, despite your assurances you definitely sound insecure. A vibe is just a vibe bro.

>>18147023

Well the english lanquage has going down spiral since ages... Bro. Why even bother...

I might be and I wonderhow I can cope with it. Because it's ridiculous that I'm feeling insecure about a vibrator.

>>18146540
Not gonna read or open the thread, but if this hasn't been said yet: it's HER fucking fault she needs this to get off - NOT YOURS.

I was married FOR 9 FUCKING YEARS. Never ONCE gave my wife an orgasm. She showed me some article about how women can still love sex but just not be capable of orgasm through just sex. About 75% of women in fact. That's what the article said anyway. More women can have orgasm, but require clitoral stimulation. And a small amount, which wasn't fucking small at all, will never orgasm. About 30% maybe?

Anyway, after I divorced her and moved on, I've banged close to 3 dozen women (I'm above average in looks and meet a lot of people as part of my job). I remember the first woman I had sex with after my wife. I wasn't sure if I was even having sex right, so I actually asked her how it was lol God that was pathetic.

Sometime in the next 3-4 women, I didn't ask but one of the women actually said "I feel sorry for guys". I said "What? Why?" She said "because you can only orgasm once". I said "you orgasmed?" She says "yeah, like 6 times"

So that just goes to show you, some women orgasm a lot, some women never orgasm. I was with a virgin who wanted to stay virgin until married and only had anal sex. Even SHE orgasmed from just anal.

Women are weird dude. Don't feel bad if they don't cum. I have an 8 inch dick, 5.5 inches in girth and never once made my wife cum in NINE YEARS - then made a random girl cum 6 times in casual sex. It IS NOT your fault that she needs this. If anything, you should feel sorry for her, because you better than her. SHE'S the one that needs toys, not you.

OP think of it this way. You are not competing with the vibrator, you are the one enabling her to have this be a part of your sex life. It's like if a girl liked to jerk you off while you looked at porn. Would you feel like she was competing with the porn, or would you feel over the moon that you had a cool girlfriend who pulled out everything to spice it up and have a great sex life with you?

And then keep in mind this is using porn as an example, while a vibrator is literally just a physical sensation. There is nothing sexy about it otherwise.

As for why she looked so happy - maybe it was trying something new, maybe she was just at the right point in her cycle and it felt really good. There is enough sad stuff in life without picking apart the happy times. She had an amazing time having sex with you, is the bottom line. If you start trying to want to give her every single orgasm first-hand, that'll be a problem. Can she still touch her clit during sex or does that not count anymore as you giving her pleasure? You don't want to head down that rabbit hole, fun together is fun together.

As for why you feel like a cuck, no one can answer that for you. Do you have some subconscious idea that it is not masculine to be concerned with your lady's pleasure? Or that sex toys are feminist and emasculating? Did you feel submissive "servicing" her and where you extra aware of that because you were less physically involved?

>>18146540

Op, a vibrator could never replace you. A dick feels 100 times better than any toy could. The thing is that vibrations make an orgasm happen faster but in no way does it feel the same. Alot of women get off easier with their clit so if you're usually just penetrating the pleasure is amazing but continuous because its harder to cum by penetration (for most).

With the vibrator It'll stimulate, deeper, more sensitive parts that usually take longer to reach but it still will never feel the same as a real dick.
Just like yout hand or anything else lsnt the same as a pussy. I'm sure you can make yourself cum faster with your hand because you know exactly how to stimulate yourself but it's always more stimulating to have sex with your partner.
She's enjoying it because it's you using it.

>>18146540
Don't use a vibrator on your gf wtf dude, that's what you have a cock for

>>18147161
They don't even do the same thing... unless you mean he should rub her clit with his dickhead.

>>18147125
>>18147148
Thank you for your replies and perspective, really help.

>Did you feel submissive "servicing" her and where you extra aware of that because you were less physically involved?

I think you're into something here. Might be the root of the problem, because I felt really submissive and as a person I'm not which made me feel like this. I will need to work with this or at least see if this is the part of the problem.

>>18147162
That's what foreplay is senpai

>>18147447
I'm biased because I'm a switch, but they both have their own appeal, it's not for nothing that there are both vehement Doms and subs. If this is the case maybe find a way to "rebrand" it in your head. Eg I am dominant leaning and I -hate- feeling docile or very innocent or whatever. Just gives me no tingles whatsoever and weirds me out. So I'm a bratty sub that gets put into place, or a loving "I'm going to rock your world tonight" sub who is secretly kind of Dom because even though it's all about their pleasure, I set the pace and I blow their mind. It's all about perception and perspective.

>>18146540
Most girls use a vibrator, fact. A normal guy in a relationship knows and accepts this. Reason being, it's a lot better than normal sex/masturbation. Girls don't exactly care for it either when guys fap to porn to the point they don't feel like having sex. So girls have to have something they can do. If it bothers you so much, don't include a vibrator with sex. Simple.

>>18147513
>Most girls use a vibrator, fact.

You're clinically insane.