I've been together with my girlfriend for over 2 years now

feel the same way here man, my girlfriend is like, me in a dress and without a beard, but, she has depression, multiple times, tried to kill herself and stuff, but in my mind, i cannot help her, i dont feel safe enough, but i cant let her alone. (and i dont have anyone else or some reason to left her).
but in your case, wait a little longer, try to forget the othe girl, focus in your gf, try a trip,only the two of you or some romantic weekend, and tell her, that you will always be ther for her, that she dont need to be afraid ( and sorry for the bad english man)

I'm in a similar boat, in a way. I do love my girlfriend, and I never want to hurt her, and I know that if we broke up she would be shattered. But I feel like the way we 2 match up, it drains me so much. I want out, but I also don't. I don't know, I feel lost.

It depends on your relationship and your characters. Maybe you're the kind of people who can just "take a break". If you do love her, think of it this way - is it really bad that she is attached? It probably means she likes you a lot. Is that bad?

If you feel attracted to someone else and it doesn't go away after a month, you should consider if this relationship is for you.

But don't do something stupid like cheat on her. Just break up if you think this isn't working out anymore.

Think of it - yes it would break her heart to get dumped. But what about when she finds out you nailed her friend? Even worse

Gl

You're just staying with her because it's easy. She can feel that you're drifting away, so she's getting more clingy. You're hurting both of you by dragging this on when you're not interested anymore.

I think this is just a phase and love with all the red roses are constantly shifting. What I mean is that you have been together with her for two years. It wouldn't come as suprise if you one day feel boring or fantasize being with others. That's normal in LTR.

It's healthy too be away from each other time to time or try to break up from your daily routines. Take a weekend trip or what else you might find interesting alone or with her.

I don't think the love has been lost or is gone. It has just come too a point where everything feels like the same. Simply; try new stuff.

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Been in this situation a couple of times. In my opinion it's just infatuation and it goes away fast. Ask yourself if you really love your GF, that's what matters here. If you do, just wait it out because trust me, it will go away. But maybe this is a sign that there is something wrong in your relationship. In any case don't let the new girl dictate the outcome of your relationship or you'll regret it.