Am I fucked /adv/? 21 year old virgin, who's never had a

I'm "worse" off than you and I'm doing alright m8, why are ya feeling so bad about not having a gf?

If you want one there are plenty of women out there you can talk to

what do you mean by fucked, also?

>>18144853
Ugly girls need love to anon, lower your standards

>>18144869
Starting to worry I"m gonna get to like 30 without meeting anybody :(, and some of my friends are meeting women.

feels bad :(

>>18144853
Look at thread
>>18144840
with 26 years old virgin female. Then go date her noob. You need each other.

>>18144877
>and some of my friends are meeting women.

you should do what they're doing if you want similar results, after all you seem to be comparing yourself to them an awful lot

if that is your definition of success just ask your friends for advice on how to get girls

>>18144853
if the virgin start to bug you a lot just go to prostitute its a lot easier than you think

>>18144853
You're not fucked. Take a deep breath and relax. Go for some shorter, less attractive girls. We're not perfect, and we can't expect perfect girls for ourselves.

>>18144888
What if i like tall girls

>>18144886
I'd like to meet a girl who is actually interested in me, not money, not to mention I don't want to worry about police or stds.

Might do it to avoid wizardry, hope it doesn't come to that though

>>18144894

go to a club and pick up girls, anon

jeez

wear a condom when you fuck em

>>18144884
They're either better looking than me, or have bigger social circles (I don't live near some of them)

>>18144900
Honestly terrified of talking to randos, and I don't really have friends who would go with me

>>18144901
>They're either better looking than me

this doesn't matter to the vast majority of women desu

>have bigger social circles (I don't live near some of them)

make yours bigger then

>>18144907

then you're kinda just "wishing" for a girlfriend or sex, but you don't really want one

else you'd be out there failing socially until you ascended to godhood

>>18144908
I am complete garbage at socializing, I literally no nobody where I currently live except for my roommate, how to fix?

Do note that sex itself wont solve anything.

If you dont bond emotionally with her you will be just as loneley as ever.

>>18144915
Should I go to the club alone? do people do that?

>>18144916

this is gonna sound daunting, anon

you're gonna have to go outside, and talk to other people

oh yeah, you're going to have conversations with strangers, man. they're probably like aliens from another galaxy or something idk I haven't left my parent's basement since I was like 13

nah I'm fucking with you but you do seriously need to go outside to social/sport clubs, groups, organizations, and night clubs and just talk to people

nobody is born with the ability to be a great socialite, it comes with practice and hard work like everything in life

>>18144894
dude every girl is interested in money and you will have to pay a lot more with a normal girl to get sex

im not telling you dating a hooker just go with some expensive one pay more have sex with hot girl leave it will help you a lot when you find the "interested girl" with your confidence and all

what police ? you have to worry only if you go to some cheap street hooker. well payed girls take good care for hygiene and protection they are no stupid they also dont wanna catch something

>>18144927

yeah

you go to the club for 30 days straight and you come out a new man

mostly because you realize normies are just slightly less autistic than 4chan peeps

>>18144892
I JUST said go for shorter, less attractive girls. Are you fucking retarded?

>>18144934

man, you are playing the game wrong if you're paying normie chicks to fuck you

you're not there to pay for them, you're there to fuck them

>>18144927
Dont go to clubs, especially not alone. It is degenerate.

>>18144934
I'll give it a shot if I turn 23 without working this out

still would like to meet a girl the old fashioned way.

>>18144947

says the basement-dwelling khv

enjoy your wizard powers

>>18144949
Hahahah this normalfag got triggerd hard, how cute.

Btw I guarantee you I am both better looking and smarter than you. Routine clubgoers are always degenerates, without question.

>>18144944
(not OP)
I'm a retard who goes for tall girls, what's the EXACT reason you girls can't even CONCEIVE the idea of going with a shorter person? It's not even my fucking fault goddamnit, i didn't choose to be short. I regularly go to the gym, i read a SHIT TON of books but if i'm 10 cm shorter than what i should be then NAH! Out of your league. It makes absolutely no sense and i fucking hate this.

>>18144955
And no, i haven't always been so desperate and resentful, the first times i tried i was fully stable and ok, only after all those fucking rejections and talking with other girls on the matter i turned into the bitchy cunt i am

>>18144932
Yeah you're probably right, problem is I don't really know what groups, etc. to join guess I'll work on that

>>18144951

not triggered, just having fun m8

>Btw I guarantee you I am both better looking and smarter than you

what are you gonna do, steal my mirrors and do my homework?

normal people go to clubs with the occasional outliers, but not like you'd know since you just generalized everybody

makes sense since you've probably never gone to a club yourself

that or you must live in a really shitty place

>>18144963

yeah, find what you like and just work on having fun with that man

and while you're having fun, socialize

>>18144948
bro you can meet girls the old fashioned way as much as you want

prostitutes are to have fun with what guy didnt go to hooker at least 1 time in his life its fun nigga why do you think celebrities and rich faggots pay for hookers when they can have almost any girl... because its fun no strings no nothing you just pay and receive what you want anal fetish play normal sex blowjob etc,,,

>>18144955
Because I'm 6'2", I go to the gym, I read, I play guitar, I sing, I go to school, and I exist.

>>18144976
this because its stupid nigga to date shorter guys it look stupid when you walk together its whole another ball game when you walk down the street with a taller than you guy

>>18144976
Well good for you, but i'm quite sure that not every single tall person in the world is as good as you, and yet they're still preferable over someone better then them under any point of view BUT the height.

>>18144976
I'm 5'8 and do all those things, and I GUARANTEE you that I am 100x better than you musicially

you need to learn/practice how to go out and talk to girls if you want to increase your chances at both having sexual relations and finding girls you will click with and value more than just for sex. if you play it passive and wait for things to happen, they just never might. the only people who care about virginity are socially awkward betas and people that dont get laid, most people in the real world dont really give a shit and neither should you. everybody starts somewhere. i know guys who didnt really know anything about getting women and remained virgins until 25-26, learned how to get better and afterwards started fucking a bunch of girls. a guy who puts himself out there and gives an honest effort to meet women is much more impressive than some passive pussy who got lucky one time with some drunk fat chick at a party. so drop any weight of shame that youre a virgin at x age and make a stand to get better.

>>18144994

listen to this guy OP

like the chinese saying "the best time to plant a seed was 20 years ago, the second best time is right now"

>>18144992
I GUARENTEE you that I have a 100x more panty melting voice than you.

>>18144992
>>18145006

how about both of you sing something and post it on vocaroo or shut the fuck up about your dumb metaphorical penis contest

It literally doesn't matter.

I used to obsess about this shit during high school, then I got a gf and shit was great... for a little while. Then my life got turned upside down when I was going through phases of depression in college cause she would tell me about how she was guilty about these other dudes that she was falling for, but I was the one she actually loved and etc. etc. Took me 2 years of being a stupid fuck to stabilize emotionally and it was by the skin of my teeth that I managed to graduate with a B- because I loved the subject matter that I ended up transferring into.

Then ~1 years after graduating we broke up anyway - took me another year to really start getting over it. When I did, I realized that having a GF didn't mean jack fucking squat. Hell we never even fucked, we did everything but. I ended up losing my virginity to a cute, slutty (in bed) Asian grill 2 years after that... I must've been like 25 by that time. She let me do whatever I wanted - bend her over the bed, in the shower, my crotch ramming into her face, etc. Stopped seeing each other after a few months because we weren't really THAT into each other and our lives didn't really align. We broke off on good terms and moved on.

I know it's hard because you've never had your schlong between some sweet teen thighs, but it really, really doesn't matter to anyone except yourself unless you behave like some sad-sack misogynist because of it.

>>18145011
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1IVnSyzqlH2

Theres a soft hook.

>>18144853
>>18145018
Police seized my PC over 6 mouths ago due to someone accusing me of hacking them, recently the police cleared me, no evidence of hacking anyone, but the police want me to come in for a second interview related to my computer having images, there believed are cp related, I've never downloaded anything like that I know of, very nervous of this, any advice would help thank you.

Also at the time of all this I'm waiting for a autism test due to showing signs of been either a borderline or high functioning autistic, also been referred for having a form of dyslexia

I was worse off than you and I'm doing ok. 28. Had sex with five women. Still socially awkward and have a hard time ejaculating with sex cause of to much porn masturbating.
Just work on your self and acquire wealth. Literally just focus on improving yourself and eventually women will come to you.

>>18144853
i'm 5'6, maybe 6/10 and 23 yrs.
just lost my virginity a couple of months ago, now i fuck like a rabbit(same girl)

so no, you're not fucked.

>>18144955
For the same reason you refuse to go for girls you find less attractive yourself.

>>18145085
>23
You are a kid

>>18145103
It's not just a matter of attraction. I'm fighting against an implicit and SENSELESS social stereotype for which a dude "should" be taller than his girl.

>21 year old virgin

Oh please, anon.

You're acting like this is such a big deal, but you're forgetting there are many like you, you're not a special snowflake.

You should focus on taking care of yourself first, being in prim shape, dressing appropriately, being sociable. It doesn't take that much, all you've got to do is trust yourself enough to being able to hang around others, including women. There are far uglier, stout men than you with less given to them that can charm women with their personalities and/or charisma/independence.

The minute you realize you can take care of yourself is the minute you realize you're ready to take it to the next level. You shouldn't force a relationship, some times, it's best to find the person YOU think it's best for you. And I'm not just talking about appearance, of course. But what you think is appropriate for you. But some times, love is blind and can override that standard. The girl you might fall in love with might just be a what, a 6/10 for others appearance only, but for you, she's a total 10/10, not only because of her appearance, but because you know her better than anyone and her having a great personality YOU think it's great.

Relax. Take a breather.

There's still a big fat world out there to explore and it's not just because you never get laid that doesn't mean you can't go out there and hook a broad out of the blue.

Just be you and be on your best behavior morality wise while giving respect to those that deserve it.

>>18145173
Hey, it's not his fault he's short.

>>18145347
>senseless

What is positive about having your man be small?

Sexually that is unappealing.

>>18146400

To you, maybe. You're not everyone's sexual values.

>>18146400
Have you fucked a small guy before? If yes, okay, it's a matter of taste. But if NOT that's just fucking stupid. What's the reason? It "looks" uncomfortable? That makes no sense. Chili dogs look like shit but they're extremely fucking good. You can still not like them, but for Christ sake you need to TRY them first.

>>18146400
t. bitter lanklet virgin

>>18146502
lmao

when will they learn?

>>18145021
Why didn't you just find some chicks to fuck?

I just became a wizard today. It's really not the end of the world.

>>18147746
literally how

>>18147816
>don't pursue sex
>profit

>>18147816

Your virginity won't stop you from getting a decent job, being there for your family, hanging out with friends, or enjoying your hobbies.

I was 28 before I lost my v-card, and I'm an autistic 8/10 at my best. 21, don't even worry son. Well, worry about the 5'8"

>>18147833
what family?

>>18147843
Are you stupid or just pretending?

>>18147849
Did you use a turkey baster to start said family or is it your unconsummated wifes son?

>>18147870

Assuming you weren't created from clay or something, you have a family.