Please help I cannot enjoy sex I'm a grill in college and

>>18142952
>the most slowflake orientation of all
>patriciansexual

>>18142954
I'm really not trying to be a snowflake, I hate all that sjw shit, I just have this sex roadblock and I don't know what to do.

are you traumatized by having sex with him? do you watch too much porn?

>>18142977
I don't watch much porn, and we broke up before I could bring myself to have sex with him

>>18142952

Uhhh have ya tried dry humping? Or maybe just diddling with clothes on?

>>18142952

Try having sex with girls. Maybe you're a homo.

>>18142952

Lower your standards you disgusting fuck. You think I'm turned on by your disgusting body? NOPE.

If you were hot enough to date an Adonis you would be already. Understand?

I'm married and I still feel disgusted by it

Deep down I feel only 8-10/10s should be allowed to have sex

>>18143078
his body wasn't disgusting though, he was hot and muscular; you're missing the point.

I wasn't disgusted by his naked body, just by the nakedness.

>>18143087
Exactly. So this is something I'll just have to accept?

>>18143089
I think we're kind of different, I just don't find my wife hot enough to want to have sex with.

>>18142952
>>18142952
I consider myself asexual but I kind of have the same problem. Flirting or getting attention is fine and I don't even associate it with penetration. I'm sometimes turned on but as soon as things get physical I lose my interest.
I find physicality super ugly. The only "pretty" sexual situations are in erotic movies where people are very good looking and there are no closeups of vaginas or penises, everyone is shaven and there is a specific lightning and filters. Porn looks ugly, not even disgusting but just not attractive, not tasteful.

I think there are many people who are less physical than others, who are disgusted by chewing sounds, others touching them, sweat, ugly aesthetics, clothes that don't fit and show your fat rolls, ugly faces, including themselves, etc.

>>18143090
Is it a facial thing or her body? Surely you can get her to work out?

>>18143095
That's depressing as hell. I want to be able to enjoy sex one day, it seems so great.

Try having sex with the lights off or blindfolding yourself during sex

>>18143098
Body, we're working out but that's not gonna give her boobs really

>>18143088

I misunderstood. You either have hormone issues causing low libido, are generally asexual or low libido just by design, or are masturbating too much to idealized sexual encounters. Actually, are you sure you're heterosexual?

>>18143102
You probably will be able to. I just don't care much.

Do you find other physical things also disgusting? Like friends chewing, yawning, making weird faces, sweating, physicality in general if it is not fairy-like or atmospheric, but mundane and sweaty?

>>18143113
I'm 100% heterosexual. Maybe I masturbate too much. Is once a day too much?

>>18143120
Not really. The way someone does mundane shit like that can either turn me off or turn me on

>>18143162

I would say so. Everyone's different, but I would try cutting back to once a week. Masturbate to imaginary sexual encounters. Still imagery works to give you some kind of reference if you need it, but nothing too provocative.

>>18143180

I might add, you will eventually find the right interval of masturbation, per se. For me, every 3 or 4 days works great. I don't say, okay on Mondays and fridays I will jerk off, more like "Fuck I'm really horny today, better masturbate". You will know when it's time, you might feel a pussy tingle and get soaked just seeing something remotely sexual or attractive to you.

were you raped? do you fear intimacy?

>>18142952
Isn't that just simple anxiety and fear of intimacy?

Naked bodies are intimate.

Generic answer but talk to a therapist or counselor at the college health center. It will most likely cost nothing.

>>18143180
>>18143189
Yeah, I masturbate quite frequently, I don't really know why. I'll try cutting back and hopefully that'll help. I appreciate the advice, thank you

>>18143193
Wasn't raped, and I don't know about the latter. Being extremely close to someone sounds great, I just don't know of that sounds realistic

>>18143208
*if

>>18143204

Yeah no problem, I was once at a similar situation. Trust me, once you let your sexual drive kind of reset it's self and you masturbate based on physical cues in your every day life you will be much better off. Like I said, abstain for a week and you will know when it's time to flick the olebean again

I'm a guy in kind of the same position as OP. Before I had sex it was all I could think about and I jacked off like 2 times a day. I've done it a couple times but I don't really enjoy it all that much, probably just cause my expectations were too high. All of my sexual encounters have been short term things with almost no emotional attachment which is what I think the problem might also be, since I'd rather be in a long term relationship than just have casual sex.

>>18142952
You need a man to force his way.

You're such a crybaby cunt. Honestly, I'd knock you the fuck around a bit to shut you the fuck up and then stick it in.

Also, i fuck with my shirt on and i'd have no problem pulling my dick through the zipper if you're gonna complain a out the human body like a reject retard.

Your problem is you got stuck in the *eww thats icky* stage.. the stage 11 year olds get to but eventually grow out of. If you had it your way you would never get past this. Some guy will have to force you a few times until you get comfortable with it and thus rewiring your stupid brain. Its called exposure therapy. Or rape i suppose.

And also It doesn't help that the only sex you know is from twilight. Thats unrealistic. I assure you, you arent going to ever get a guy like that. That fact that you post on 4chan tells me you're at best a 6. So lower your expectations dear. If you must, then think of edward cullen while your fat smelly mexican boyfriend mines your disgusting dry pussy with his churro stick.

This is the best advice you will get from anyone on this matter and it was free. You should thank me and listen.

>>18143577
Tbf Bella was about a 6

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>>18143579
No

>>18143577
did you get off by writing that?

>>18144946
No. Did you get off by reading it? It wasn't sexual, i dont think.