I asked a girl I've had my eye on for years out for a date

>>18142709
What makes you think that there are lots of dudes after her? Although your friend could be right, if the chick is very attractive then chances are its true. Also, what are your intentions with her? Do you actually want to date, or just bang?

>>18142729
He wants affection whatever it may be.
That's what being a human is like.

>>18142737
A relationship and a one night stand can both give you affection (to a degree), but people usually want one or the other. I'm asking because depending on what OP wants, he'll have to approach the situation differently.

>>18142729
Tbh if we were to go out once, bang, and that be it I wouldn't complain. But she may legitimately be the most kind hearted person I know so something more with her would be ideal...

>>18142709
>>18142737
Sounds like this is about to turn into a hardcore case of oneitis

OP do u have any other women in your life/plates your spinning or is this your first ever actual date

You don't have to impress her/win her over either, that will IMMEDIATELY backfire on you so stop trying so hard.

Either way sounds like you're gonna fall into scarcity real badly while she's the one maintained in abundance with more options of guys

>>18142779
Girls rarely show romantic/sexual interest in me desu. I've been in serious relationships before but the only other girls I talk to I'm just friends with

>>18142768
Be authentic, and be confident. Sounds like empty advice, but its true. Don't feel forced to act a certain way to be liked, because you won't be. The fact that she agreed to date means she is at least somewhat attracted to you, so you're already more than halfway in. This will maybe impress her (I say maybe because human behavour is never 100% predictable), seeing as there are VERY few guys who have these two things. She may even consider a long term relationship with you, however don't count on it, she might just want to bang and move on to the next guy.

>>18142779
>spinning plates
neck yourself my man.

>>18143028
agreed my bro

>>18142729

Every non-ugly girl always has lots of dudes after her.

>>18142779

>You don't have to impress her/win her over either

Wrong, you dont know how it feels to get a girl after working her up so hard and planning up everything and leading everything the way you want

You know, not everyone here is that lucky with love, and the only path you have left to take is to become a master of flirting