>graduated a couple years ago
>no friends IRL or online
>just work during week, sleep/ video games at weekends
I need something to change my life, totally. I've had teaching in Japan as a plan for a while now, but I don't know if it's a great idea. Is there nothing else that I could do to reset my life? Some country far away with some society/community I could join and inevitably integrate into?
I live in Japan and it's great
I'm not in any community and don't have any friends other than my wife and other girls I meet on the internet tho
>>18140506
Get a gf.
>online dating
Do not come back until you had a date with at least 30 girls in person.
>>18140533
>getting a gf without a social life
>'So what do you do for fun, anon?'
>'Wait, you don't have any friends?'
>>18140529
What do you do over there? Do you work for a Western company?
>>18140543
>i have X friends, but since i started doing phd and they left school we sort of went out of contact.
You lose the dating game only if you choose to not play.
>>18140544
I work for a Japanese company but still make six figures just about
I need to find a new job tho
>>18140555
Do you have to do lots of overtime?
>>18140580
I leave at 6pm, they're gonna have to pay me more if they want more than that. Fuck listening to stupid, low-productivity people who can't finish their work on time and only earn 2/3 the average American.
>>18140589
Is that part of why you want to move to a new company?
What's your work at the moment OP?
>>18140608
Web development. Not sure it matters much, but it's something I could do in other countries.
>>18140599
I just want more money
please send help
>>18141159
I have already told you here
>>18140533
What part did you not understand?
Friends are cool and such, but you are heading towards another life's chapter where you make family and such. Your surroundings will be wife, kids and coleagues from work.