>Have a coffee date
>Try holding her hand while walking to the place, she didn't like it
>Just keep talking for three hours straight after getting there, she was very interested in my ramblings on my research
>She said she was very impressed with how smart I am (she's a PhD student, I'm finishing Master's) and we could always go grab some coffee together
>She let me kiss her on the cheek in the end
I'm not very experienced with women but I'm getting serious "like you as a friend" vibes now so I need you guys' advice on how you think it is. She's also slightly older than me and we're about the same height (~180 cm) if that matters.
Was it your first date with her?
>>18138262
Yes, it was.
>>18138236
ask her on another date. if she says yes she is interested.
use the word date.
don't be insecure - take things at face value.
not every girl is a social rock star sometimes they do not communicate their attraction well, like most men.
>>18138236
it sounds like she wants to grab coffee and you want to grab her pussy
you should figure out a way to communicate this better
maybe ask her out to dinner next time
>>18138236
seems like she sees you as a friend mate, you can try one more time to see what happens, but ask her out to something thats less casual and more date like.
>>18138236
>She let me kiss her
bad start. she doesnt control you or your body. she doesnt "let" you do anything. stop thinking like that
that aside, sounds like the date went well. just tell her you havent been in many relationships and you want to take it slow
>>18138236
also, maybe not the first date, its OK to ask what she is looking for in this relationship.
actually its pretty smart thing to do sooner rather than later. you should have an understanding of your relationship and the boundaries the other person expects.
>>18138236
yeah she ain't into you