>Want a boyfriend who's stronger/smarter than me.
>But don't feel like I deserve one because I'm weak/dumb
>So I work to get stronger and smarter
>But now I'm not attracted to people who were previously stronger than me and now are no longer stronger than me.
How do I get out of this endless cycle of monkey-pawed self-improvement?
>>18138151
Date a short guy? > v >
Define stronger/smarter.
>>18138192
Someone who could beat me in a fight, withstand an extremely hard situation without breaking down further than me, and someone who is wiser/more knowledgeable than me in how to live a good life.
>>18138197
Are you stronger than the average man now?
>>18138197
You are a man right?
>>18138205
I don't know, maybe. I don't know what an "average man" is, but I still don't think I could beat most people in a fight.
>>18138210
Yes.
>>18138151
Date an emotionally weak man like me. That way you are in part partaking in an exchange of goods so to speak.
>>18138151
By growing up and out of comparing people like that.
If you treat people like products with spec sheets you will never be happy.
>>18138212
Ahhh so do you wanna be bottom to a alpha or something ? But you need to be alpha too? Why not be a lady boy if you want a dom top. I don't understand gayness.
>>18138151
your a girl? why do you want to be stronger? stop.
not many dudes find muscle girls hot.
being strong is not feminine at all.
>>18138256
I'm not a girl, though I like feeling like a "second best" to a guy.
>>18138239
I don't want to be a lady boy because I'm too tall and it's an unhealthy lifestyle.
>>18138266
>though I like feeling like a "second best" to a guy.
ok then i guess the obvious answer is stop working out...
as far as intelligence goes your probably just being narcissistic about your own intelligence. even high iq people are only generally smart. real geniuses are few and far between.
>>18138270
I don't really care about being "smart" I just want to be healthy and independent
>>18138270
Oh, but that being said, I am narcissistic in that I want a monogamous relationship.
kys fag
>>18138276
that is not narcissism man. that's a values thing,
don't think you are somehow wrong for that preference.