Hey /adv/ my girlfriend of 5 years just broke up with me a month

Going through the same stuff, OP. Boyfriend left me saying "its for the best", and straight up told me he'd much rather we didn't talk for "my good". No idea how to respond to that, and can't seem to move on.

>>18137173
She was 14 there? Some killer tits growing there m8

>>18137173

You can absolutely find someone to love you again, it happened to me after closing a 4 yrs relationship which I though was perfect, two years ago. Now I have an amazing girlfriend and I couldn't be happier. Take some time to be alone, work out, try some new hobbies and sports, start playing an instrument, learn about yourself.

Then the next big step as soon as you feel ready is to fool around: party, make out with other girls, date, nothing too serious but it will be a huge boost to your self confidence. Then add a bit of luck and you will find someone else who will make you feel great again. Don't get discouraged.

Celexa. It helped me, after 5 years of going insane with a major depression over an ex. Best cure though, is knowing that in retrospect, God moved her out of my path for a reason.

Better things are up ahead.

She looks WAY above your league, kid. She definitely wanted someone more masculine or Chad-y looking. I'm sorry.

>>18137173
1 month is nothing. You're in a world of pain right now and that's not gonna change for 2 months. For that time focus on friends, family and hobbies and other stuff to keep you sane. You'll think about her from morning to evening. 3-4 months after the breakup you're probably ready to get to know other women. Do that, it helps you see that there are lots of good women out there and that you ex isn't everything in the world.
After the phase of pure pain depession kicks in for 5-6 months or more. Keep going.