>I need closure with an ex About a year ago I was cheated

Why try so hard and reconnect with scum?

>>18136879
I'm not so sure that she full scum. At first I thought she was, though, I couldn't bring myself to love her any less. Then, very recently, I had a very important thought cross my mind. You see, after she had admitted to what had happened I still treated her as good as gold, this made her guilt grow. Later the friend group built a wall around her and started rumors about my, false of course. I believe now, that she wanted to do something more, but couldn't given her circumstances. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'd still like to find out which one it is.

>>18136876
holy fuck. you're obviously still in high school. once a girl start acting like a dumb, useless slut there's no going back. stop being a pussy. its just hard for you because you have to see her everyday. try to fuck someone else or hang out with friends ffs. all girls are dumb sluts and the sooner you realize that the better.

>>18136876
Closure with an ex.
Well there is something that you won't get.

My advice is that this was almost a year ago. You can talk to yourself in the car about what you'd tell her all you want. It won't change the fact that it's done. You want to get closure for what? So you can see why she left? The big deal with this is that it all doesn't even matter

You're hung up on this girl. Why though? Are you going to get back together? Are you hoping on this? You're digging your own pit.

Stop thinking about being a cheapass and wanting to wing out a date with her. Stop it. You're better that this.

Imagine if you broke up with a girl. Then a year later she comes up and wants to have lunch to talk about what went wrong.

She would be deemed a psycho that needs to fuck off.

So don't be that psycho. Stop putting the pussy on the pedestal.

>>18136876
You want to talk about it.
Things went wrong there.

>>18136876
this has to be a joke.
There is no closure to be had, she fucking cheated on you, do you think talking to her about the shitty things she did is going to help you feel better?
Whats going to happen is shes going to act like she didn't do shit wrong and blame everything on you because of how you're acting, women don't give a shit about you once they've broken up with you. Shes gonna think you're a creep because shes probably long past that stage of her life while you're clinging to it.
We both know deep down you just want to get back together with her, you need to fuck off and deal with your problems instead of bring a shitty person back into your life and blame yourself.