>Dating new girl for a month now >Occasionally she'll

>>18136495
Two ways to get over it. You can either become as sexuality depraved as she's been in the past yourself, which you're most likely not gonna do. Or you can simply accept that she's with you now, she USED to do those things, but no more, because she's not.

You can also bluntly tell her it bothers you.Flat out, stop talking about your sexual history because it makes me feel uncomfortable, and that's it.

>>18136503
Yah, simply accepting isn't that simple unfortunately. I'm also not going to just fuck around on her to even the score in my head, seems really scummy.

I guess I'll just tell her to stop bringing it up, and if it still continues to bother me, I'll break up.

>>18136495
i cant stand this sort of shit, iv been in this situation before and it fucking sucks

basically if you know you're never gonna get over it and as long as you're with her it will eat up at you then the logical thing to do is leave her and move on. but thats way easier said than done. also girls like this will cheat on you almost certainly. i dont really have any advice but fuck iv been there before

>>18136513
Do whatever suits you.

If it happened to me, and I really had feelings for the girl, I'd be pissed too. And frankly, all these guys who enjoy hearing how many dicks their gf sucked or fucked are in denial that they're essentially getting verbally cucked. I've talked to girls about their sex life before, mostly random girls I met on chat apps. But since I didn't have feelings for them, didn't matter. In retrospect though, I SHOULD have felt disgusted. But even a slut can charm you. Not worth the headache with a serious partner though. Tell her to stop.

>>18136520
So why not break up with that person?

>>18136495
Never been in the situation but I'll offer my lamens perspective. But first a question. Why does she bring that stuff up? Like is sex already the topic and she squeezes in the threesome stories? Or does she just say random shit at random times when there really isn't a reason for her to bring up a time she's had sex? I think it would make a difference. Anyway I digress.

I think saying something about it will just reveal your insecurities about it. If this chick is already kinda "free spirited" it might just show how "beta" you are even though I think it's a legit concern. Making peace with it might take time but I don't think everyone can do it. I'm definitely with the other guy who said she's likely to cheat on you even if that's just speculation. But you should be happy that she's with you at the same time because it says something about her personality.

Overall I'd say maybe let it go on to see if she stops naturally. But I think you'll eventually cave and get sick of hearing what she's done so it'll probably end :/

>>18136495
Hey Broanon just got out a 2 year rela with a girl like this i mwt her as a virgin too man honestly if you are going to get over it...
1. Tell he stop talking about it unless she needs to tell you or you ask... her casual blurtinf it out wont leave you any room to get over it
2.understand that a certain level of discomfort is gonna stay no Mattrr what
3. Understand that getting over this will definitely take more than a month or two... you gotta give yourself time to process it
4. After yiu Trust with time itlll subside youll see it one day wen you feel it going away start telling yourself " let it tf go"

>>18136534
Not him.

But check it. None of us are better or worse than someone simply because of our lack or abundance of experience. I would hate hearing my gf talk about sexual exploits, but I wouldn't consider myself neither above nor below her. The point of a relationship is for the other person to meet you halway, be even with you, happy with you, and be good to you, and you be good to her. It isn't an opportunity to vent about how many ppl you fucked and how. It's an opportunity to start fresh.

>>18136553
meet you halfway*

>>18136553
>None of us are better or worse than someone simply because of our lack or abundance of experience
i dont believe this. girls that are promiscuous and have been slutty in the past are generally unloyal and untrustworthy. There is a reason why marriages with girls who have had many sexual partners fall apart more often than marriages with girls who have had fewer sexual partners. It says something about their character, girls like that need constant male attention form a variety of guys

>>18136589
And I agree with you that all those things are possible. But am I a better person than her? Is my sin somehow less of a sin than hers? When I was a child, I drowned a cat and cracked it's head open to empty the water that drowned it, I didn't even know it went to it's lungs, I didn't know what a lung even looked like most likely. And you might say "you were just a kid, you didn't know" or "anon, you are seriously fucked up." I felt so guilty I tried blaming it on my friend. Well, I can't say that my life, the things I do, and have done, are somehow spotless and clean in comparison to others. I can give myself the illusion that I'm better, because I personally haven't done it. But listen to what Jesus said, let he who is without sin, cast the first stone. Not one person stoned the woman caught in the very act of adultery, and he forgave her. So, my whole thing is, respect, and appreciate the person, but let them know you also appreciate respect.

His choice if he decides to marry her eventually, not ours.

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>>18136495

0/10

This bait is about as stale as it gets.

>>18136495
Just fuck and dumb

>>18136601
People often think of this as bait, but in reality, this is an EXTREMELY common problem. So not surprising you see lots of threads like this.

Almost all of my male friends who actively date have encountered this exact issue.

This is pretty much a guaranteed dump, sorry OP.

This just never works out well.

>>18136495
Women are whores. More news at 11.

>>18136629
This, you will have to exit sooner or later anyway when you start to look for marriage and kids.
Just have fun till it lasts

>>18136495
Shes a fun chick for the moment but accept the fact that, thats all she'll ever be.

This isnt going to be a long term thing with her.

>>18136495
My gf was a hoe before we dated. I got over it, and it doesn't come to mind anymore.

>>18136495
sounds like trash, break up with her. or atleast cheat till you find someone better if the sex is amazing.

>>18136495
i would leave her. then again im pretty conservative.

>>18136898
liar

Sounds like she wants you to be more sexually depraved with her

>>18136599
you were just a kid. kids do horrible things all of the time. they don't know any better.

i killed plenty of animals as a kid. that's what happens when you have a .22 on a farm. i could never do that now.

>>18136495
Dont fall for this crap,having more partners or doing more sexual things with someone doesnt mean it works with everyone,it doesnt mean she will be better at sex than you.Shes trying to get the upper hand.Wanna make her feel insecure?Everytime she mentions things like that answer with one word answers like hmmm,yeah,or whatever.Look like you dont care.Its not that hard being a whore anyway.If she asks you about your sexual experiences casually end the conversation and laugh it off.

>>18138275
yeah be passive aggressive best relationship advice i have ever heard.

>>18136495

she likes you and wants to make sure her baggage isnt a dealbreaker. she is being open about it because she doesnt want to "lie by omission"

lmao she's a used up skank who gave it away for free and now you're spending gobs of cash for her used up snatch

dump her

>>18138287
She started it.I didnt say to be passive aggressive,just to show he is not bothered.Not in any way be mean.

>>18138333
but he is bothered. he is posting about it.
why hide that from her? you think problems will be solved by ignoring them?
whats the point?
it is passive aggressive, fuckin text book.

>>18138292

This. You don't have to stay with her OP but at least she isn't waiting until you're married to tell you this shit.

>>18136495
My gf used to be a heroin addict. She's done plenty, I'm sure. But I have a big dick. Basically my dick is the thing that gets me past it lmao. Just the idea of her not being able to replace me easily and that I'm bigger than most if not all of the others.

>>18137893
Me too, I shot frogs with a pellet gun, stabbed a turtle once, shot snakes, birds, and hacked toads with a machete. I think that when you grow up on a farm it's pretty normal. I love cats and never fucked with them, but it isn't unheard of.

I mean read Huck Finn or Tom Sawyer.

>>18136589
Who wants to ever get married anyway.

>>18138401
gamblers

>>18136495
she's not just bringing it up out of the blue, girls don't just admit to being whores.

when they say shit like this it's very carefully calculated and she has motives behind it

she's testing you to see how you respond to being verbally cucked, of course she knows that she's pissing you off and making you feel like shit and she's trying to see if she can get away with it, and next she's going to move onto flirting with your friends in front of you and eventually cucking you.

it's up to you to decide if you want to put up with a bitch that plays games: do you want to play the games and win them, or do you want to find someone that isn't going to play games with you.

you gotta stand up for yourself and let her know that her doing promiscuous, slutty stuff is just decreasing her value in your eyes and if she keeps it up, she's gonna find herself out on the street
a woman that isn't loyal is worth nothing

>>18138402
There is nothing in it for the dude

>>18138292
I disagree. It sounds more to me like she sincerely does not realize that it doesn't make OP more attracted to her/isn't neutral to him. Maybe she herself gets off a bit at feeling like a crazy nympho ready to bestow her sex on OP, and doesn't realize he just sees her as a whore. I've had guys do this to me as well.

It's possible that this is the reason (getting it out there as a disclaimer) but then it would be much easier to not go into details and only mention enough to get the point across that you've had many different partners and done some kinky stuff.

OP, I would just break up with her. She doesn't deserve to be with someone who resents her for something she was upfront about and can't change. You are likely not going to get over this and as you said, this is a dealbreaker for you. Just leave.

>>18138408
It's actually quite the opposite. Men (at least in many places of the world, probably yours including) get a shit deal if they are a father without being married to their kids' mother. Nowadays sure, the woman might get money out of the marriage, but practically speaking it is much more important for the man to secure his paternal rights. If you are unmarried, have a gigantic row and she takes the kids and leaves, good luck getting them back.

>>18138408
i agree, they are gambling on some stupid ideal

>>18138419
this is true. very good point.

stop being an insecure little shit, chads do the same shit as she does and you're worried that it'll effect her ability to love you

>>18138419
>he wouldn't abandon ship and move away claiming to make nothing

>>18138433
Unmarried and never been married, just pointing out that you are wrong. Especially for the younger generations, at least where I live (Western Europe) women are employed more often than men if you look at the <35 generations, and earn more. Sure they typically cut back when having kids, but the idea that a marriage is necessary for the woman to survive or feed her kids is entirely outdated.

If a woman is well-educated, has a good CV and hasn't been out of a job for years, there is no reason for her to get married other than having a wedding. Or can you name me anything else?

For men, not so much.

>>18138412
>she sincerely does not realize
NO NO NO

she knows exactly what she is doing and she's playing games with him and making him feel like shit
normal people dont just talk about how great sex with their ex was
get out of here you cuck

>>18138449
Once again, I have experienced people telling me this. And while I find it off putting and tacky to hear about someone's preferences if we've never even done anything yet, I sometimes ask to hear dirty talk about past experiences if I am secure with someone. It turns me on, not because I feel humiliated but because it's intimate and thrilling to hear them look back on essentially a real life porno they were in.

People like different things. Stop the presses.

It seems more likely to me that she thinks he'll see her as a sex queen or she is used to a partner who got off on hearing her do stuff like that than that she is actively undermining her boyfriend she apparently likes. The chance that she is a stone cold abuser hoping to not scare him away BUT make him feel so shitty he'll stay around is a lot smaller than that she's clueless and/or self centered like so many young people are.

>>18138441
If you don't see an epidemic in gold digging whores then you're blind

>>18138753
everything he said is right.
women make more than men if you look at same job, per-hour data. the nuclear family has been destroyed. a woman can support a family especially with welfare in 1st world.

but still saying there is no reason for a woman? huge cultural pressure to get married. huge.

>>18136495
Free wise advice:

Fuck the hoes, but only marry a pure catholic girl.

>>18138767
Laws are still overwhelmingly in favor of women in marriage and family courts. People who have shit understand that. Obviously it doesn't matter to people who don't.

Marriage brings social status and once a woman decides its time to leave she can do so without fear thanks to support from the state.

I have 3 older sisters and all of them have been divorced with whomever man they had been with getting the sort end of the stick.

>>18136495
>and don't want in a woman.
Then break up with her.

She has the right to do what she wants with her body, but that does not mean by any means that you have to like it or be ok with it.

>>18138782
If we could boycott pussy we would but that shit is like heroin

>>18138779
yeah i totally agree with that not sure why you quoting me :)

75% of marriages in my age group end in divorce. its like playing russian roulette with a 4 round revolver, 3 loaded chambers. GL.

>>18138419
Who wants to ever get kids anyway.

>>18136495
I've been that whore. I brought it up out of shame/guilt. But maybe she is bringing it up bc she wants you to be into those things?

I think telling her to stop is A+. Then ask flat out why she is bringing it up anyway. If it's Shame, then maybe she is just a chick who will do anything to please the dude she is with. In that case, you might be in luck. Dunno. Hard situation.

>>18137893
And adults do fucked up shit all the time, some knowing better, others simply step on shit, and it's too late by the time you get around to smelling it.