Is confidence and approaching just about all that is needed to

>approaching

No. This is what retarded ""pick up artists" think. You'll look like a mug if you try this.

As for confidence, Yes, but again, not what pua faggots define it as which is basically being an arrogant cocky little fuck. Just love yourself and be completely at ease in your own skin and you will exude the type of confidence that naturally attracts females.

>>18135399
Yes, there are NEETs and WoW-addicts with girlfriends. Being a NEET or a WoW-addict doesn't necessarily imply you lack social skills. Social skills is the main-thing you'll need to be good with girls. Being bold-minded and showing confidence is a plus, but if you don't have social skills on top of it you're gonna creep people out.
The best way to train this skill is to get a job or hobby where you're forced to deal with people (added plus if there are lots of girls) on a regular basis. Attracting girls will happen naturally after a while. Of course, you need to have your health sorted out, and preferably some ambition in your life.

>>18135429
To add to this: I'm not saying confidence is not important, because you WILL need to have a healthy amount of confidence, but the critical ingredient is being comfortable around other people and having essential communication-skills. Also, if you're already struggling, you will need to break out of your comfort-zone a little bit to get anywhere.

>>18135399
When asking for advice don't listen to what females say but rather what successful men say.

>>18135399
you need either personality or looks. if you have both you have it made. if you have neither you are cursed.

go do some crazy shit and develop a personality. become interesting.
or just hit on a bunch of women, eventually one will fall for it.

How the fuck do you think your parents met? You think your dad was a small time beta chump and your mom made the first move?

What the fuck is wrong with you. The entire species depends on you approaching the female. You're just too chickenshit to even CONSIDER ATTEMPTING it.

>>18135592
the trick is to accept the worse case scenario.
if your OK with her laughing in your face and calling you a freak then there is no more fear.

your probably a freak anyway, why try and hide it? go make a fool out of yourself.

>>18135600
This anon got it.

The only reason I've ever had a girlfriend was because she said she liked how weird I was being.

>>18135600
The worst case scenario for me would be she pretending I don't even exist.

>>18135656
One down, 4 billion to go.

>>18135656
yeah, so? lol.
think about it; thats exactly the situation your in now.

you don't even have nothing to loose, you already lost it!
so go talk to her. just do it.

but you wont. because you let your emotions dictate your behavior, and you are afraid.
wise men let logic dictate their behavior. fools and women let emotion do it.

you are not granted a personality at birth you make it yourself. be the person you want to be. its that simple.