I honestly and shamefully admit that i have no sexual thoughts

>>18134783
Maybe you're asexual

>>18134789
No, she just has a low libido.
How healthy are you? Do you exercise and have a healthy diet? Living unhealthy is really damaging in that regard.
It might be worth going to a doctor.

>>18134789
Perhaps. Before I was on the birth control shot, I still had low sex drive. Maybe depression contributed to that.

More information: me & my boyfriend have talked about this issue extensively. He reassures me he's okay if we just make love once a week. Or even every other week.

Finally, when we do make love, it's always when there's parents nearby, because we don't live together yet. When we have actual privacy together, I've shown to be more spontaneous, more agressive, and more comfortable. Is that expected and normal of a woman? It just feels weird when there's no privacy.

>>18134783
>birth control shot (every three months).
Hello, is it depo rovera?
Have you even bothered to read it's side effects? Like that it will
>make you more fat
>increases hearth disease chance
>and finally kill your libido?

Being horny is all abour hormones. And this just kills your hormones for 3 months straight.

>feel like defective woman
There are multiple generation of woman who had super strong hormone based birth controls the whole life and used sex just to spawn babies and control man. Are they defective? I dont think so.

If I was a girl, i would never touch these types of birth control. But I am just simple horny male who wanks everyday fueled by simple testosterone. I have no idea how bad are periods and brain based on something else than logic.

>>18134824
To answer your question:
I don't exercise as much as I'd like. I currently get most of my exercise at work because it's a constantly on-your-feet job: retail. Me and my boyfriend are arranging to exercise more TOGETHER outside of work, so we feel more motivated.

I eat as healthily as my budget allows. I make sure to watch what I eat. No Gatorade, tea, or coffee. I OCCASIONALLY drink soda: only when I'm driving home from his house at night and I'm tired. Make sure to drink lots and lots of water.

But yeah I take care of myself, but I can improve.

>>18134832
Yes I'm on depo. I'm well aware of its side effects, but having no periods IS A WONDERFUL THING! Fucking hate periods. Messy and painful. If I could stay on this birth control just because I wouldn't get periods, I would.

You're right. It hormonally mimicks menopause.

But hey, sex without a condom.
After this upcoming shot this month, I'll probably quit because the side effects are mindfucking me (for example weight gain when I eat below 2000 calories a day)

>>18134840
Btw you can use it to chemically castrate your bf. Works almost same way on males, you just use two shots on 1st month, then you go as normally as with girl.

He will slowly lose any interest in sex + erection. If you keep it up for ~2 years it will be permanent. This way you both will be happy asexual couple :-D

Good luck.

>>18134846
No thank you.

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