Ill start by saying yes, I already know I am a failed male specimen.

>>18134414

>I engage in such activities its usually out of obligation to make sure my partner is satisfied.

sounds like you are a woman in a man's body... sorry bud

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>>18134425
Im not gay though, and Im definitely not trans.

I just dont really enjoy sex for my own benefit. So in the middle of it I often lose focus and by extension lose my edge.

>>18134437

>I just really dont enjoy sex for my own benefit

then dont have sex. problem solved

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>>18134450
b-but i really like this girl and I cant disappoint her because IM flawed.

>>18134414
>>18134455
1: you're not flawed, you're just a special fag
2: try ecstasy a few time prior to getting down and dirty, you might just be able to kickstart whatever is not hitting off quite right
3: if nothing can fix it, just be honest with her about you not being big into sex, and tryto think of it not as something you do for her because you're obligated, but as something you do for her because you like to see her satisfied. I'm not a sexual myself, but I am sexually dominant, and nothing gets me off more than seeing her lose herself to animalistic passion. Assuming that my attraction to seeing her that way has something to do with my feelings for her romantically (as opposed to sexually), then it might be that you can get your rocks off in a manner similar to that.

best of luck, another 4fag

>>18134414
Same here. Alcohol helped me. I don't know why

>>18134484
I doubt alcohol will help me, it just makes me slower and less energetic. But If I ever get the chance Ill experiment and see what happens.

>>18134475
I consider it a pretty significant flaw, but that aside... Ill keep that in mind and give it a try to see what happens. Thanks.