Hey guys, I'm got mind fucked today and need some advice

>>18134253

dont do it

>>18134253
Talking to her only by your phone is a good idea. Never meet her again. And if I were you, I would not talk about this to this board, but with your current girlfriend. You want to help, and only this, make it clear.

You don't want your girlfriend finding about all this by finding all the secret calls you would have with this ex gf.

>>18134253
Bump

>>18134253
Don't do it.

>>18134268
Exactly what this anon said.

Consult your current GF in a manner that makes it clear that this bitch needs help and you feel bad for her and want to help. Leave out the part about marrying the shit out of her. ASK your gf what SHE thinks you should do. Listen not only to her words, but also her tone and body language. She may say go for it but her body may say "I don't like this at all"

Do whatever your gf wants you to do, don't argue with her or try to make her see things your way, you'll be good

Don't do it.

>>18134253
Do it. You're gonna realise that what once was there isn't really any longer.

Don't do it. My ex was in your situation. Broke things off with me, ran to her. In a nutshell, he ran back to me because his nostalgic fantasy of her didn't match the real her in person on a daily basis. I told him to get bent at least 5 times, but he's still trying. I was the one crying over him last year. Now I just feel bad for him. It's so cringy.

>>18134723
Honestly though, would you want a guy who thought another girl was 'the one who got away' and 'connected with on a mental level that is still unmatched?'

Sure, OP will almost definitely fuck up his current relationship if he stays in contact with his ex. But the fact that he's not over her is just not fair on his current girlfriend either.

OP, no. Your so called connection is just a fleeting illusions. This is not what makes relationships and you know it.

It's over with your ex, for good. She is only using you as emotional support and when she is satisfied she will disappear again leaving you disilliuded. This kind of thing isn't even worth the effort of talking through the phone. It WILL end badly.

You have the chance to cut it off now. Do it.

>>18134724
Mm, you know what, I think you're right. Maybe he needs to be a bachelor for a while until he's over his ex.

*single, not bachelor

>>18134253
Does your ex have family? Friends? Co-workers? Anyone at all in her life?
If she needs help with her mental/drug issues, then why, why, why, why would she go to her ex whom she hasn't spoken to in 4 years instead of literally ANYONE else?
You can't save her, OP. Only she can do that.
You aren't the only one who can help her. You aren't even the best person who can help her.
Don't do it.