My dad wanted me to help him this weekend but I have other plans so he said it was okay and we could do it Monday, I think he was disappointed though. Now that I'm just going to feel guilty all weekend anyway should I just cancel my plans and help him?
>>18134079
what did he need help with? what were your plans? is there any reason why waiting til monday is a bad idea?
when did he ask? how long did you have these plans set?
>>18134084
Basically we're going to go get some firewood. My plans were to go visit my friends one town over for the weekend. I was supposed to go visit them last weekend but I cancelled it because I helped my dad then and also had an ill-timed dentist appointment. I didn't hear anything about him wanting me to help him until tonight.
No real reason why waiting until Monday is a bad thing... I think he might also want to have somebody in the neighborhood for St. Patrick's Day, he is kind of a lonely dude since my mom died.
>>18134090
that is unfortunate, but you shouldnt cancel your plans just because your dad needs firewood, and its not urgent...
id take some more time to do some male bonding with him, but no reason to cancel this particular weekend.
>>18134079
he just wants to see & spend time with you. you are probably his finest creation.
dont feel guilty, he also wants you to spread your wings. but make sure to make time for him
>>18134079
You seem like a good guy OP. This thread is kinda heartwarming.
Maybe your dad just wants some company. But remember y9u have needs too and if you did something with your dad last weekend then you're allowed to take a weekend for yourself. No need for guilt. But do make sure to meet him soon.
Good luck to you and your dad :)
>>18134079
>>18134090
You cancelled your plans last week, and he only asked you today. You should go to your friends, it seems fair.
Spend time with your dad. You said it yourself, you're going to feel shitty all weekend if you don't.
>>18134079
Alright hamilton