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How do I stop being a sexual person? I'm sick of it. It

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How do I stop being a sexual person? I'm sick of it. It all started when an ex wanted me to quit porn and I struggled. Since she left and all the time I've had to think I realised I'm an orgasm addict, more than anything else. I want this to stop. How do I stop leering at women's bodies and feeling like killing myself after? LOOK AT THIS. WHY DOES IT MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? HOW DO I STOP FEELING THIS WAY? I STRUGGLED to close this fucking picture! FUCK. I want to feel CLEAN for once! How! I want to be abstinent for life. HOW???!?
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>>18133892
Unless you are asexual you are going to be attracted to women's bodies your whole life. It's like looking at a plate of food and wanting to eat it up. Don't fight it, but don't be amoral, a cheater, or a porn addict. Love and fuck one woman at a time, or hell sleep around if that's your thing but don't play a hoe. Life is short, bust as many nuts as you can if you want. I tried that no fap shit and I quit it all and it's not worth feeling "clean". You shouldn't feel ashamed. But I never went back to porn. Not going to lie and say women's bodies don't turn me on because they do. Part of being a man and human.
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Hormonal treatments given by your doctor
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>>18133902
>Not going to lie and say women's bodies don't turn me on because they do. Part of being a man

racist
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>>18133892
OP, I'd like to suggest that your problem is not that you're a sexual being. The problem is that you're ashamed of your basic human nature. There is nothing, nothing, nothing wrong with thinking women are sexy. However, if you keep trying to deny your hardwired human impulses, you're going to make yourself miserable.

Why do you think sexuality is dirty? Why do you want to kill yourself after getting aroused? These are really important questions to ask yourself, and I think you might benefit from seeing a therapist.
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>>18133902

Every single orgasm I have leaves me wracked with guilt, I have several day periods of abstinence followed by several days of binging and I want to kill myself when I'm rubbing my dick. I find pornography intellectually disgusting while my body reacts to it. It feels like I'm raping myself. I cry during sometimes.

>>18133904

But weights and the martial arts are the only goddamn thing I have left I enjoy. If I neuter my testosterone I'll be too weak to bother training.
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>>18133915
I've had sex and it was AWFUL.I still remember the smell. Every thrust was a STAB. Every movement in her was oily and oppressive and clingy and it burnt me and I remember the feeling and it makes me feel sick. It makes me want to THROW UP.

Why am I drawn to lumps of goddamn fat?
Why do the irrational minds giving voice to idiocy in childish tones have to inhabit these flabby monstrosities I'm drawn to?

I want this flesh carnival to end
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>>18133923
you should probably go to a professional for this shit and not 4chan u crazy bastard
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>>18133929
Seconded
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>>18133929
>>18133931

Professionals would consider getting me rutting again as a fucking win. I was hoping the no fap crowd might come out of the woodwork and give me some advice.
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>>18133934
Well, as long as you already know what you want people to tell you, why don't you just tell it to yourself? Done. Then you don't need to bother with any of this pesky "advice" bullshit
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>>18133938

I can go without masturbating for a week but weakness or something overtakes me. I was hoping someone who'd done a few months might give me some tips and tricks in practice.

Sorry to piss you off.

How long since you last had an orgasm by the way?
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>>18133947
I had one before I went to work this morning. And I am 100% comfortable with that.
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>>18133892
>How do I stop being a sexual person?
Stop being a human male.
Other than that, don't listen to people that want to deny male existence. Embrace it.
I'm going to jerk off, have a beer, watch my wife walk around the house in shorts and a tank top, and still have sex later. I'm over 50
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I'm sick of not being a sexual person. It's impossible to find love and companionship without sex.

I know some antidepressants can inhibit your libido. Short of drugs i don't know how you can stop being a sexual person, but i think it might help you to learn that sex is not dirty or shameful. That is actually doable.
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>>18133918
I feel guilty too anon, it's a bad feel. But you're not alone. We simply stay away from it, and try our best not to get bored.
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>>18133892
That's a nice ass OP, somebody you know? This is my GF, she also complains about my porn intake.

My advice? You can't stop liking what you like unless you have an unpleasant reaction to it. Go down on a dirty hooker, you'll never get hard at the thought of pussy again.
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>>18133892
keep drinking water. it has birth control it in. in fact, it's turning the frogs gay.
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>>18134684
Can your gf sit on my face?
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>>18134980
Sure, idgaf
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>Why do the irrational minds giving voice to idiocy in childish tones have to inhabit these flabby monstrosities I'm drawn to?

Answered 1000 years ago.
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>>18134684
>>18134989
Can you tell her from me that Anon thinks she has a really cute butt?
It would cheer me up to pay her a compliment, and it IS a very nice butt.

(i'm a different anon from >>18134980
, btw)
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