My LDR bf of 2 years is no longer sexually attracted to me. He

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2017-03-16 02:00:38 Post No. 18131218
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:00:38 Post No. 18131218 [Report]

My LDR bf of 2 years is no longer sexually attracted to me. He says he sees me more like a daughter/sister but wants to have a romantic platonic relationship. I'm in shock, obviously hurt and self conscious now. Has this happened to anyone? I don't want to have a relationship without sex but I don't want to stop talking to him. If i ask if he thinks he'll ever be attracted to me again he says "maybe in the future" and last night he had a sex dream about me? So is he lying to not hurt my feelings and let me down easy? He also says that sexual thoughts and seeing me naked feels "wrong" Should i stop talking to my bf and just move on? Is it possible to make someone re-attracted to you? He swears that it has nothing to do with my body/face/any changes etc. Is it just a lost cause? Has anyone had anything similar happen to them?

Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:02:47 Post No.18131225
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:02:47 Post No.18131225 [Report]

>>18131218
similar thing happened to me, had much more to do with the emotional side than her actual attraction. are you overbearing?

Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:04:28 Post No.18131230
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:04:28 Post No.18131230 [Report]

>>18131218
He's probably just a dick. It's his way of saying he wants to fuck other chicks while in a LDR. I say block and get an IRL boyfriend, or just enjoy being single for a bit.

Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:05:43 Post No.18131234
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:05:43 Post No.18131234 [Report]

>>18131218
LDR rarely work. Just break up and find a guy near you.

Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:09:51 Post No.18131243
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:09:51 Post No.18131243 [Report]

>>18131225
no i don't think i am
>>18131230
that's what my friends have told me, but he is very convincing when saying it's not that. maybe i'm just being naive...

Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:13:13 Post No.18131250
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:13:13 Post No.18131250 [Report]

>>18131225

I can see how emotional aspects of the relationship can change the sexual dynamics of it. can you share more about it?

Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:20:58 Post No.18131265
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:20:58 Post No.18131265 [Report]

>>18131250
I haven't seen him in 4 months, this is the longest we've ever gone without seeing eachother. usually it is every month or two. he is very attached to me, doesn't want to stop talking, texts/calls all the time, still says i love you and can't imagine his life without me etc. i didn't talk to him for 2 days after he told me he wasn't sexually attracted to me, and when i broke the silence he acted very concerned about how i was feeling + if i was ok

Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:24:38 Post No.18131272
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Anonymous 2017-03-16 02:24:38 Post No.18131272 [Report]

Hard to sustain a sexual relationship online. Without the actual physical side, he stopped "feeling" it.

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