What do relationships consist of? I'm 23 and have never

It depends on the relationship and what your needs are. Do you want to see her every day or just every once in a while?

Bonus question: I've never had sex before. Everyone says the first time always sucks.

Is there a way I could make mine not suck? I really like this girl I want to at least be competent my first time sexing. From what I see in porn it doesn't look to difficult if I keep it simple.

Any thoughts?

>>18130635

Every relationship is different. Some people will start by rushing to pick each other form work everyday, while some are happy to see each other on the weekends. So there's no "normal" here.

Nevertheless, this doesn't sound too much like a relationship to me. What does "it looks like we could potentially start dating soon." mean? What's a date to you and why should you guys start having them?

>>18130643

This sounds like a troll attempt now.

>>18130640
I guess ideally I would see her 3 to 4 times a week. That's about how often I see her already. She says she's kind of needy with time and unlike most guys I guess I don't see that as a bad thing cause I've never had a gf.

>>18130644
>What does "it looks like we could potentially start dating soon." mean?

She has been giving me strong signs and I think I'll make a move soon.

>What's a date to you and why should you guys start having them?
Well this whole time we've done date-type things minus kissing/sex. We've had dinner, sleepovers, and movies.

>>18130645
>This sounds like a troll attempt now.
I swear its not. I just don't want to embarrass myself if I can help it.

>>18130653
>Well this whole time we've done date-type things minus kissing/sex.

You have a romantic/friendly relationship, not a sexual one. So you say you'd be dating once you at least kiss, correct?

>I think I'll make a move soon.

You think? Or you will?

>>18130655

The thing is, if you know it's gonna be awkward because it's awkward for everyone, saying "I don't want mine to be awkward" is a pretty impossible request, isn't it?

>>18130662
I can take awkward. I just don't want to be terrible. The goal is to not be below average in bed, is that impossible for a first timer?

>>18130675
> The goal is to not be below average in bed, is that impossible for a first timer?

How many people are above average the first time they do anything?

>>18130677
I just don't wanna fuck it up so bad that she thinks I'm bad in bed.

Right now I'm thinking: Making out>Foreplay>we undress>...>put penis in vagina>maintain rhythm(admittedly this might be tricky, but I've praticed thrusting)>cum. I figure if I can make all that last 30 minutes I'll be in good shape.
I'm inexperienced I'm wondering what I might be overlooking.

Two people respecting, loving, and caring for each other.

The two people build trust as time goes, and that trust is a beneficial reward for the both of them.

>>18130704

>Right now I'm thinking: Making out>Foreplay>(...)Etc.

You are overlooking the part where that actually happens. Right now, you think she is sending you signals and you think you might, maybe, do something. Possibly, but not sure.

You are jumping the gun a LOT.

She knows you, and she must know you are inexperienced. Unless you straight up lied to her this past year, she must have realized you weren't dating anyone or talking about past sexual experiences. So she knows you are a noob at sex stuff.

Now, assuming she is really sending you signals, she knows what she is getting into. But before you start planning the sexing, try to see something happening. Maybe make out once and then worry about the sex.

>>18130718
I'm pretty confident I could get with her, like 80% sure.
I did kind of lie by omission. I vaguely mentioned dating other girls without going to detail. She on the other hand has gone into detail. She once said she has a fear of bad sex.

>>18130643
Check out >>18130601

Thrusting takes a fluid rhythm. If you know how to dance, are able to instinctively recognize how to sort of synch your movements, it'll be supereasy. Otherwise you can only learn through experience but if you pay attention it's all good. Alternate longer with shorter thrusts, tease her a bit before going balls deep.

>>18130742

>I'm pretty confident I could get with her, like 80% sure.

Yeah, dial it down. As I said, try making out with her first, you know? Right now, you are guessing at best.

And the thing is, if this goes south after you put so much expectations on it, you'll feel bad, the friendship is over, etc. etc.

People on this board need to learn to let things happen and don't try to plan so much.