My gf and I are in a great relationship, we get along fantastic,

>>18130459
Millions of men get married and never fuck a different woman ever again. So can you.

Alternatively, become swingers, or otherwise polyamorous

>>18130459
Try not being a fucking degenerate.

>>18130459
Interesting. I mean you do have a few options OP. The common sense option is to break up with your girl and fuck anyone and everyone you want.

The second option is to understand that even though you're 27, that's still young. So young to the point where you're still discovering what you want and you even made the effort to make a thread about such things.

The third option is to know that humans change all the fucking time. No pun intended... Maybe your prone to be a swinger, maybe your prone to the polyamory lifestyle. Maybe you're just a young douche who doesn't know what he wants. Who knows!!! The options are endless.

Don't cheat. Whatever you do, don't be another faggot in this life who screws up your partner mentally and changing her into a different person than she was before. Be honest and communicate with her. I'm not guaranteeing it's all gonna be peachy rainbows and unicorns. Most likely she will dump you and go and fuck as many guys as she can as revenge.

I can't tell you what's best cause I don't know you or your gf.

For what it's worth, no. I feel that not everyone is equally invested in their "potential" with strangers - there are men who sincerely don't care much for women beyond their wife, men who don't care to do stuff with other women but still love porn or checking ladies out, and men who do all that stuff and still feel pained that they cannot physically flirt and seduce anymore, for example - and this has more to do with how you're wired (or your age) than with how long the relationship has lasted. If you already feel this way now that you haven't bee together -that- long, I don't expect you to feel differently in ten years time, much longer since you fucked someone new. Plus don't forget that life happens and you will likely develop on actual crush on a person around you a lot at one point or another.

Essentially I'd just cut my losses and accept that if you'll ever be ready for lifelong monogamy, it's not now yet.

OP here.

My gf would never go for polyamory.

In any case it's not just the sex, it's the sense of freedom that comes with being single, the feeling that anything could happen on a night out. Coming home to the same person forever makes some people feel secure, but it makes me feel a bit anxious.

I enjoy having sex and I enjoy other people's company, but every time I've been in a relationship I've ended up finding it oppressive.

I have no problem being alone now, but I'm afraid of my feelings changing when I'm older. I'm afraid I'll end up craving a relationship when it's to late to find one.

Does anyone have experience with this?

>>18130582
>it's the sense of freedom that comes with being single

Be single then.

>inb4 crybullying

I mean I can't tell you much more, beeing that I am also 27, but what I figured so far is, that men never really lose a certain hunger for different women. I mean it feels disgusting how easy girls can make it into my sexual imagination, if they want to. And that is even the case with my hot redhead 20yo GF. not trying to brag, but no other girl compares to her, yet they still can get into my head.

I gave my GF a book (shaunti feldhahn for women only), that explains how men have a hard time keeping other women out of their head and that it's nothing personal, with this as a basis, I am slowly and carefully talking to her about maybe slowly opening things up a bit after we are settled and married. That way i have hope, which can help me, keep my dick out of other women.

The only other options are breaking it up, losing a good opportunity or just cheating/ going to a prostitute behind her back, risking a divorce though.