why the fuck am i shy when writing in groups chat too. its ridiculous. and if i can't write properly in a group chat, without thinking a lot about what to post, its not hard to think about the things i go trough in real life. i wasn't this autistic before, I'm getting worse. other people might scare me. i don't know. got this problem since i was a really lil kid, thought about it a lot, still can't figure out why i can't talk to people properly. id like to have friends. sometimes i think i don't even like people, and i need really a lot of time for me alone. now I'm thinking i might do not want friends. I'm so stupid and pity when interacting with others. in real life, I'm the shy one who is always treated like the victim. i bet you know the type. i do not want to be like this anymore. please help
>>18125631
Get drunk. It won't fix your problems, but it'll help you forget them for awhile
do you use discord? what kind of group chats do you hang out with?
>>18125633
thanks. i do know if ill do it though
>>18125638
no its not discord, just a usual group chat, like Facebook, only text and vocals. I'm only in one right now, and i think the guys there are pretty cool.
we were a kind of a group, got lost and never talked for like 3 years and then started talking again. never met them irl though. if they met me irl, they'd probably think I'm autistic and stop talking to me, id start shaking like a mad if i met them, i think its because I'm shy but again, i might be really just autistic.
sad bump
Practice. I've heard the trick is to get them talking, find mutual interests.