I'm being completely honest, what's the point of socializing and building relationships? People are just going to betray you, hurt you, or abandon you eventually. At best you'll start to drift apart then you're forced to start the cycle all over again. Seriously, is it to grow?
>>18123601
>what's the point of socializing and building relationships?
What ISN'T the point of socialising and building relationships? They make you a happy, healthy person. Without them, you're going to be mentally unhealthy; humans aren't built for isolation.
>>18123601
None of those things happen, or at least not very often, if you find someone good for you. And ideally, we all will.
But love is worth it.. it is even more worth it to be surprised by how good someone can treat you. That is worth looking for. And the possibility of marrying such a person is also very special.
>>18123601
Some people are worth friendships and others aren't. When it's worth it, it's usually because you're on mutual terms not to betray or hurt one another - and if you do, you work it out and learn from it. I guess growth is part of it, but it's also nice to have someone you feel safe around.
On a side note, you were probably raised to be social and build relations - otherwise, what is there to motivate you?
>>18123635
I honestly don't know where it went wrong. Growing up was fine, making friends was easy. But overtime I stopped being able to connect with people and developed a loner mentality.
>>18123601
breeding
>>18123650
If you have a loner mentality, then what is the problem? Just take care of your own affairs. If you don't need friends, don't worry about it. There's lots of people like that.
>>18123601
Life is full of betrayal and heartache, but it's worth all the pain in the world to find happiness with those worth spending it with.
The point of pain is to work through it and not let it consume you, if you let it dominate your train of thought and change who you are then you are just as weak as the ones who continue the cycle of misguided hate. It's being able to be hurt and keep being you, keep doing the right thing by those around you, and maintain a healthy life style.
There's more character in getting knocked down and getting back up then getting hit and laying in the dirt.
everything anyone ever starts will eventually finish
why eat when you'll just be hungry
why wake up when you'll just get tired again
why live when you'll eventually die
you should do what brings you happiness regardless of what it means in the long run. in the long run we are all dead. don't feel like you have to be this asshole >>18123606 or this idiot >>18123626
if you don't like people don't socialize with them. be polite and respectful but nobody expects more than that.
>>18123601
>I'm being completely honest, what's the point of socializing and building relationships? People are just going to betray you, hurt you, or abandon you eventually.
Cool. Die alone then, faggot. No one is going to stop you.
>>18123601
I feel like this sometimes. Women always drive away in a relationship, seems like almost everyone has this urge eventually.
I am not like that. The longer I emotionally bond with my partner the more I stick to her. Given that I like the way she acts and thinks, obviously,
A relationship doesn't start boring me, not after 2 years, not after 5, probably never.
But it does for most people.
However, I am not too negative about it - I believe there is some chance that I meet a partner who thinks and acts like me and doesn't abandon a relationship out of boredom or different source of attention and confirmation.