So how do you know you love someone? Is it supposed to be love at first sight, or can you go on a few dates or whatever until you start to feel love for them?
>>18121541
I never settled for someone who didn't make me feel tingly immediately. I enjoy that instant chemistry, that superficial attraction. If I don't have that, I always feel like I'm not being fair to myself.
Love is something much more complicated - it takes time to develop a bond that is in anyway meaningful. I'd say at least a year, a year and half of dating before you can say you properly love someone, because at the beginning it's all honeymoon and hormones.
>>18121541
You'll know because most other people you will probably end up fapping to, to the thought of them. But this person has the power to make you stop that completely, and make you wish so badly that you were making love to that person instead, slow dancing with the person instead, cooking for each other, showering together. Others become insignificant, and that person becomes a very distracting thought... in a good way.
When the person is around, you either feel super warm inside or really happy they even exist near you..
>>18121576
I felt like I was in a trance sober simply watching the girl I was crushing on.. so maybe add that. Feeling like the person is making your heart rate increase simply watching them.