Why the fuck do I get more interested in a girl when she basically rejects me? It's fucking stupid and I know I basically have no chance, yet I just start becoming more infatuated with her.
She rejected you because she's not interested. Leave her alone.
>>18120203
Yeah no kidding, look at my question
>>18120195
the thrill of wanting what you can't have
I have so many chicks I still sometimes send a snapchat out to even tho I know they're not down unless I suddenly become rich (but think about it, the kind of women who would do a 180 like that arent worth getting down on yourself over)
>>18120226
It's so fucking stupid. She doesn't reply to me and suddenly she's some challenge I feel the need to accomplish, even though it's impossible. It takes like an entire month to get over it
Because you don't cut your losses and move on. You count so much with your win and create so many expectations that they keep going on after they reject you. Too much idealization.
Haste your pace, the earlier you get rejected, the easier it will be to move on.
>>18120236
I have done that though. For instance, just recently I texted a girl I had know for 2 days if she wanted to go and get food with me and get to know each other better and she just didn't respond. I'm fed up with myself and this spree of rejection
>>18120229
ITS BEcause the payoff is so worth it
>>18120266
But it's impossible
>>18120250
So just move on to the next. Do online dating. You'll be rolling the dice so fast that it'll be impossible not to get what you want.