How the fuck do I move past this
She's a current roommate's friend so I see her once a week and it sucks
Fuuuuuuuck
Please
This fucking sucks
>>18119376
Do you have any memories of where you're kissing her or touching her sexually?
This isn't really advice, but I feel you.
>>18119393
Cuddling and falling asleep in same bed
>>18119340
what's the story?
>>18119411
>roommate's friend liked me before Christmas
>started liking said friend after Christmas, didn't know about before Christmas
>made a move
>was going really well
>one night she comes over to party
>I don't party so I stayed in my room but left my door open so she could come in
>she came, flirted, and left often before completely ignoring me when I finally came out
>next day I get this
>>18119435
idk, say okay, but asked her what changed
>>18119459
It's been a few days since this text
From what a friend said, she thought she still liked me but the feeling didn't come back
I don't know how to get past this
>>18119487
2 routes (though i discourage the 2nd):
1: Drop it and let her go, she is too fickle at this age and can't make up her own mind. You have no obligation to wait around for her to.
2: Try to recreate the reason she liked you in the first place, it will probably fail and you will just end up more hurt though
>>18119435
>i dont party
>aka i didnt socialize with everyone and just acted like a normal, well adjusted human who knows how to have a good time with friends, instead i acted like a recluse
i found the problem OP
>>18119517
they drink
i don't drink
>>18119520
and? that doesnt mean a fucking thing. You could have still hung out and talked with them and specifically with her u idiot
>>18119534
valid
doesn't matter now, what's done is done. i'll keep this in mind for next time. how the fuck do i get past this
>>18119340
>>18119376
>i still enjoy being friends with you
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
>>18119560
Literally, just be her friend, this same shit happened to me freshman year, itll suck at first, but if you arent a dick and actually enjoy her as a person, then all those qualities you like will still be there, but you just won't be dating. If anything it's good to have female friends.
>>18119599
same though
>>18119607
I don't think I'm in a good place to be her friend for the time being though
>>18119607
I feel you, just tell her you want to cool it for a bit to calm down over your feelings and you will hit her up when you are ready.
>>18119406
Do you ever smoke pot and jack off thinking about it?
>>18119940
nope
>>18119906
thanks, anon
>>18119951
You should try. The feeling of her warm body, your hard cock pressing between her butt cheeks, stroking her nipple and kissing the back of her neck. What a great jackoff session that would be.
>>18119962
i'm good, that seems a little sad for me