So I've been getting close with this girl, kissing, holding, etc. Our friends ask if we're together and she hints at wanting to be.
Problem is, I recall a friend saying she has a boyfriend who's in the marines some time ago. She has a friend who's in the marines and lives across the country, someone she met through xbox 2 years ago. I'm assuming it's the same guy since they seem fairly close. There's a heart next to his name in snap chat, same as mine, an they snap chat pretty often. She told me she's going to see him for a week.
Now I'm not up in arms about this since we aren't even together, but I'm all sorts of confused about this situation. Am I that guy that she's fucking with since she can't be with him? Should I just ask her about this directly or leave it alone and drop any possibility of a relationship?
>>18119248
this made me gag. it's so relative to a fucked situation i got out of recently.
he's probably going to fuck her. chances are he's going to lead her on, use her, and fuck her over. leave her now with your dignity in tact while you still can.
do you know where this dude even lives?
>>18119254
>he's probably going to fuck her
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. That thought process alone tells me that I shouldn't be trying to pursue something with her.
Somewhere in California. Hell of a distance from here.
>>18119259
dude, leave. she's going to come crawling back with all her mental issues after this dude leads her on. you don't need any of that.