>be me
>never had a girlfriend, don't even shows interest in the childhood / early adolescence
>discover porns at 12
>start to masturbate
>never approached to the female world except for porns
>don't know girls can be different than porn
>don't know dicks can be different than porn
>start to have some relationships at 16
>feeling awkward about my penis
>start to feel insicure about size cause the massive use of porns that suddenly enter in contact with reality
>be obsessed by expectations
>don't even have sex to confirm if my paranoia is real or not
>girlfriend didn't even watch my dick
>feel insicure anyway
>don't have sex till 19
>first blowjob failes cos feeling insicure and can't get a decent boner
>girlfriends loves me and doesnt care
>try again months later and everything starts to goes well and have sex and stuff
>don't feel insicure anymore cos sex works so who cares?
>be me nowadays at 24
>starts a new relationships and being brought back to the point when i feel insicure about dick and everything fails cause anxiety won't let me get a decent boner
p.s.: size is about 14cm or something. will this situation go on till the day i die? (not talking about the size, but the feeling of being judged and the obsession of expectations)
I didnt ever get humiliated so i starts to think that it's all in my head but i had sex with only two girls in my whole life and maybe they just didn't tell me my dick is tiny or something even if they think it.
If i can't improve the size, i'd like to improve the mind at least, and just don't give a damn.
I usually think that pornography ruins the vision of sex and women in the early years of life.
What do you think?
Welcome to "Low scale of average", my friend. At least we're not alone.
Sucks to be below 7 I guess.
Your penis isn't tiny OP, it's actually the average size and is big enough to pleasure a woman.
(14cm | 5.5 inches)
>>18117717
Every new relationship will feel awkward in the beginning. Sexual exploration is one of the most exciting things in new couples, getting to know your bodies, what gets you two off, the boundaries. If you relax you will enjoy it greatly.
As for the dick size you're average, but even if it were smaller I wouldn't worry anyway. Sex is 90% mental, some girls are excited by bigger dicks, some don't care, it's not your problem. Maybe you exclusively date girls with big tits, maybe you don't care, it's the same thing.
>>18117740
>>18117749
ofc, i agree with you guys (probably having a big dick since day 1 didn't let me feel insicure etc) but what about starts to don't give a damn? why do i find it so hard? why can't i just don't care and living my sexual relationship easly? do they really care as everyone (and themselves) say?
did you experience this?
>>18117756
what is the min. size for 'pleasure' a woman? are they satisfacted in physically or mentally (or both?) when they ride a big dick?
>>18117765
Yeah, I do, and while it's probably part of what's keeping me back in relationships, I don't care too much. Probably it's because I don't watch much porn as of late and if any, I watch solo stuff or drawn shit for which I can disconnect it with reality enough to not be affected by the ridiculous penis sizes.
>>18117759
didn't read this in time. i agree with the fact that is 90% mental,
but are big dicks only exciting in mind and not in the body?
i mean,
do big dicks play an important role in body satisfaction or not?