>tell long distance gf about how sexually frustrated I am

She has self-esteem issues and feels you'll probably leave her for someone closer/more attractive.

>>18116685
she feels guilty about the relationship being hard on you and wants you to be happy
or else she wants some nearby dick and wants you to leave her so she doesn't feel bad about slobbering all over some head

>>18116685
>What's her endgame here?
What's yours? Long-distance relationships are fucking impossible. Are you really gonna be satisfied sexually if she sends you a few nude pics? You'd still just be jerking off, not much would change.

It sounds like she's coming to understand that this isn't a real "relationship," it's not going to satisfy all your needs, and she accepts it. You still don't, I guess.

She's right to avoid sending the nudes. It's just a bad idea to have stuff like that out there of yourself

>>18116709
It didn't start as one, and she's eventually moving here. She's visiting in a few months and staying for four weeks.

>>18116714
Then it's up to you, really. What's your question exactly? You told her you were unsatisfied/frustrated, and she basically just let you know that she gets it and she's not trying to hold you hostage in this relationship.

If you love her enough to wait, and you can stand it, keep waiting. If you can't handle the frustration any longer, break things off with her for now until you can actually live in the same city and have a real intimate relationship. Either choice would be understandable, you wouldn't be an asshole for taking a break. Like I said, long-distance relationships are not easy for anyone

>>18116685
Giving you some insight from a 30-something. I did a few LDR, the only one who refused to do nude swaps with me sounds just like what you're describing, and she was already in a relationship and living with her bf but didn't tell me until I did some forum digging and found her out. She told me later that she didn't want her bf to find out with obvious proof and I told her I was doing ldr with a few women so we ended up swapping some pics in the end.

Tell her you don't want to sleep with anyone but her, and just wait for her to turn up.

Don't break her heart man.

If it doesn't work it doesn't work but don't cuck her so close to finally meeting.

You don't need nudes by the way. Just use porn and don't tell her you do lol.

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>>18116685
just broke up with a girl from the philipines. She was pretty obsessed and the distance was really hard on us both. She had a nice ass. It's a shame cuz now she's moving out and the breakup took a toll on her. She never used to drink but no she's getting drunk a lot and "entertaining" random guys online. LDRs really fuck people up. I feel bad cuz I first asked her to be in one. Now she says she cant get over me so I think I ruined her. Idk whats going to happen to her. Shitskins really do appreciate you

>>18116777
We've already met, this was a long term relationship that became long distance