>go out with a qt friend I've fallen in love with some

I have the same situation, bumping for OP.

I know your feels OP but you are assuming a lot. You assume she knows how you feel, you assume she feels the same, you assume she hurt you like that on purpose instead of just confiding in a friend.

Stop assuming and either talk to her about it or let it all go. Then if she doesn't feel the same way about you then you can try to be a big enough person to be happy for her despite your unhappiness.

I spent a while torturing myself by being in love with my friend. She already had a boyfriend for 4 years since before I met her. Took a while but I accepted it and am now happy for them and I still cherish any time I get to spend with her. Not gonna lie and say it doesn't still hurt that we will never be together but at least I can give her my friendship and support and know that he will the care of her.

So basically you have been specially friendzoned... Fuck her once more and move away emotionally, don't treat her anymore like a princess.

>move to a different country
>visit my friends every now and then
>meet a really cute girl on a party hosted by my best friend
>she has a boyfriend, nevermind
>dumps him sometime later
>don't really think about her until my best friend tells me that she has a crush on me and would like to go out with me if I lived in the same country
>move back because of financial problems and other stuff, also her
>turns out she has a crush on a different guy now
>wants to introduce him to me
>constantly talks about how she fell in love
>I start getting slightly mad
>she gets really fucking mad that I don't want to get drunk with them
>starts ghosting me

Anon, don't worry. You'll fall in love with a different girl, shit like that just happens.

ignore her

take interest in other girls

try to be cool confident dude....be with other gril... hopefull the preferred gril gets jealous

its the only way to fix this anon

>>18115132
Just directly tell her you like her and make it clear it is in a romantically/sexually way. You have nothing to lose, if she refuses then you can stop talking to her or keep being her friend, you decide. It's better than feeling like shit just from assumptions, you can't be sure about what's going on her mind.

>>18115366
Not yet, he's just making assumptions.

>>18115132
>she tells me that some guy wants her and she doesn't want him, doesn't know how to handle it
sounds to me like she was talking about you

>>18115740
But better ask her directly OP, don't make any more assumptions.