My partner and I have always had a wonderful relationship but just recently, things seem to be getting difficult.
I've turned into a bit of a nag. Namely about the state of the flat, our sex life and a lack of effort from his side. I seem to be focusing on the very, very few negatives in our life and just blowing them up. This is resulting in regular digs at him, which in turn is obviously effecting his mood and confidence.
I don't want him to resent me and I know that most of my feelings are actually linked to myself and my lack of confidence and self worth.
How can I get a hold for his and get things back to how they were before?
>>18115126
You should apologize for the digs, explain yourself to him pretty much exactly as you've done here, and have a conversation where you say what you feel about the things that are actually bothering you, rather than lashing out over little things
If it goes well, just, y'know, do that regularly instead of bottling shit up until you're just mad at everything he does
>>18115152
This. Get to it OP.
He sounds lazy and boring in bed.