Would you ask a girl out if she's moving across the country a couple months from now? She's smart, attractive, family oriented and we've really hit if off these past couple of weeks at our clinical practice site. She'll be gone for a year, possibly staying there for her new job. Thoughts???
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>>18114598
i would, but i wouldn't imply anything more than a fling.
Sure, for a couple of fun weeks and a whirlwind romance. Live up the moment.
But don't go in to this thinking you'll ever be anything more than that. That's just a one way ticket to the pain train.
don't ask her to be your girlfriend, get drinks and sleep with her (that's what she wants, hence why you're getting along so well right before she's leaving--she's wanted to sleep with you but didn't want it to turn into a thing, and now it can't.)
get drinks, have sex, don't make it a huge deal, just tell her to let you know when she's in town and you'll probably hook up on her visits sometimes.
>>18114598
If you're seriously taking this in consideration, you're already fucked up.
Long distance relationships are an emotional rollercoaster, and after some time all you get is nausea. LDR can even works, but always - always - take its toll. If you can avoid it, you must avoid it.